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Should I be worried that my girlfriend start having at 13 with her ex bf same age as her? (lemmy.world)
submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by Damnler@lemmy.world to c/relationship_advice@lemmy.world
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Is this a big deal or I'm just over thinking it and its normal I'm fine. Their relationship lasted about a year so she's having sex at the age of 13 through her 14. After her ex she's doesn't have any encounter until we met at Freshman of college. She's 18 and I'm 19 at that time. So in summary she have two body counts one on her ex at 13-14 years of age second is me at 18.

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[-] Damnler@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago

She's a wise, caring, understanding and simply beautiful woman. She will only do such things when her ex initiates it. One more thing I like about her, is her honesty. She's quick to admit and confess about it.

[-] sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 months ago

Well when you put it like that, I'd say take it slow, be caring, honest and understanding back toward her, and things will probably work out well!

It sounds like she may be somewhat embarrassed by this past relationship, and you sound like you are capable of appreciating her overcoming that embarrassment or shame and being trusting and open with you.

[-] Damnler@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

Yeah I'll try my very best.

[-] TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 months ago

You should match her honesty and show her these posts you've made about her.

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