Then dont?

You're the one insisting it's a binary thing where it's always ok or never ok and the answer is the same for everyone.

I'm not trying to make you do anything.

I wouldn’t say it in public, in a quote or song. The amount of people that would get angry at you is more than the people that would stand up for you.

That shouldn't be the reason you wouldn't say it, but I suppose it's the best we're going to get.