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People who treat your inability to pay for things as a choice deserve to be thrown out of a building (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 month ago by Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net

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"Why don't you want to come to my wedding?"

"I want to come but I can't afford a ticket overseas."

"Whatever, if you want to stay home and miss out on life that's your decision I guess."

Apparently me saying no to this wedding was the last straw for them, because they're always asking me to do things I can't afford and they don't seem to understand why I can't despite me telling them every time that I am poor. So now I'm the bad person because I'm totally being poor and "holding myself back" on purpose.

If they want to burn this bridge they can fuck right off. I've had enough of this shit.

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[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 50 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

"Just have even less comfort and joy in your life. Sleep less. Turn yourself into a revenue stream for capitalism and accept the fraction of your labor value you get back from your sacrifice." /r/GetMotivated

I have douchebag petite bourgeoisie relatives that have a similar attitude as OP's situation about their life-changing epiphany-laden "you haven't lived until you bungee jumped" world-hopping vacation flexing.

"You haven't lived until you've had authentic Turkish tea. Why haven't you gone to Turkey yet? Oh right, you're scared of trying new things. No excuses. No excuses is why I can get Turkish tea and you let life pass you by. Carpe diem. That's Latin, you know..." maybe-later-honey

[-] Mardoniush@hexbear.net 33 points 1 month ago

Oh I hate this so much. If you want someone to try something you like, Gift it to them! Just buy them the treat rather than making them spend their own resources so you can feel good about your own taste in fucking treats.