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Now get him to ask for a new name bimonthly and keep signing those forms
I’m totally down for protesting but fucking with the schools isn’t the way to do it…they are victims in this too and forced to do crazy things. Imagine having to ask all of the students what they want to be called on the first day of school and then having to initiate email notification/permission requests to parents. They had to build forms and systems for all of this nonsense
People change due to discomfort (pain) or pleasure. If neither is experienced or transmitted to the deciders, likely nothing changes.
Finding the path with the least amount of friendly-fire is good, but some civil disobedience seems fine with me.
May even be that the teacher is cool with the below:
Ben -> Benn -> Ben
I'm not going to lie, I misread that as: "Now get him to ask for a new name, 'Bimothy'."
...I've been joking too much with my (incidentally-trans) housemate and best friend about fake/silly portmanteau names lately. The name "Bess" came up and I'm like... "what is that even short for?" They were like "Queen Elizabeth, apparently", but I said "Bessica".
"bi"-mothy omg
Oh! That's not what I was going for, but lol