Wait, so you're fine with domestic abuse, racism, and making creepy unsolicited comments to women and girls, as long as it isn't in public where you're subjected to it but kept behind closed doors? Huh, well this took an unexpected turn. So, you're one of the nazi furries I see.

Most of society is saying that men doing those things is bad and they should stop, not using them to justify their own immoral behavior subjecting others to their kinks without consent. "Criminals rape people so I should be able to ignore consent too" really isn't a great position to hold.

Btw, sexual assault, racism, domestic violence, and catcalling are not "kinks," something is seriously wrong with you. CNC is, but the first C stands for consensual. Raceplay is, but that also is only between two consenting adults, the rest of the train doesn't need to hear you call your SO the N-word. BDSM sometimes can involve slapping or paddles and the like, but again that is between consenting adults, the train does not need to watch you smack your girlfriend around even if she says "thank you sir may I have another." Catcalling, idk, humiliation or praise kink I guess? Still only ok between consenting adults. Seeing a pattern here? CONSENTING ADULTS. Your absolute disregard for consent is frankly concerning.