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It was my birthday a few days ago and all I can think about is how I'm still a virgin (lemmynsfw.com)
submitted 7 months ago by Streammy@lemmynsfw.com to c/casualconversation@lemm.ee
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I feel like past a certain age everyone doesn't like growing older. For me I have that same feeling plus the added pressure that every year I go from being an X year old virgin to an X+1 one year old virgin. I'm about to finish collage and go into the work field which given my internship I can already tell I won't have much of a chance at meeting new people even less girls.

Everytime I find someone and start getting along with them really well. I think to my self this will finally be the year which I stop being a virgin. But it just has not worked out. Of course I dont go into a relationship with the sole goal of losing my V-card but it is something that crosses my mind.

I am 24 year old and I am still a virgin.

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[-] Streammy@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 7 months ago

Its hard to list them just like that and some of them are pretty standard IMO. I would say the most impactful standard that I have is non smoker (tabaco), weed I dont mind as long as it isn't a habit.

Other which I feel like is really big is consistent communication. Which you might think is easy to find but in my experience some girls just dont answer for days and that is not something which I appricate. i know in some situations it just means that she is not that interested but I get that a lot :/

This is one of the obvious ones I guess but not being mean and initialy trying to be nice to people.

[-] MutilationWave@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

It's very good that your standards are not based on your perception of beauty. Keep at it.

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