Tbf, I'm already not dating lol. I don't go to bars and I don't use apps, so I don't meet people (any new people, but that includes women to date).

"Just get a hobby"

Well, I have some, but it turns out women "just want to be able to enjoy their hobbies without being asked out," oh and one of my hobbies is walking in the woods looking at cool critters in creek beds, and they'd rather I be a bear than human, so I guess I'll just stare at this salamander for a while, get some mexican food, and watch KOTH with my cat like usual.