Yes. People cannot help what they are. They can help what they do. That's the difference. I don't care what someone thinks or believes, that's between them and themselves. Maybe God, if you're a believer.

What I care about is what people do. Every person has vile things they WANT to do, impulses they choose not to act on. None of us are purely innocent in our own heads. As long as it stays there, there's no reason to condemn someone.