[-] Red_Eclipse@hexbear.net 5 points 3 days ago

Those itsy bitsy little crab spiders are cute :3

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It's a long video, but I'm really impressed with the amount of research he put into this. I knew about ABA's problematic origins but going more in depth really paints a picture of how bad it is. As well as, that there ARE people out there working to change it from within, but they face ENORMOUS structural and for-profit incentive pressure against them. I think the best part is near the end, where he lays out the sort of things parents should be asking in order to evaluate just what kind of therapy is right for their child. I'll copy some:

  • What behaviours are you planning to change, and who decided they were problems?
  • How do you respond if my child says “no”, cries, hides, or wants to stop?
  • Do you ever target stimming, eye contact, or “looking normal”? Why?
  • How do you measure my child’s wellbeing during and after the session, not just their behaviour?
  • What alternatives (OT, speech, autistic-led supports, relationship-based models) have you considered?

As an anecdote, I once took a psychology 101 course in college. I thought it was gonna be all that interesting internal stuff like Jung. But no, the entire course was focused on BF Skinner's behaviorism. The cold mechanical view treating people like input output robots really freaked me out. The professor even once showed us a video of a mother "extinguishing" a behavior in a 2 year old, and all I could see is that she basically traumatized this baby. But no one else seemed to see that. The professor showed this example as a good thing. I was horrified. The nonchalance of the psych professor teaching this behaviorism put me off so much, that it made me reluctant to seek out therapy for my mental health, fearing that this is how therapists must think of us. I kinda regret not speaking up in class about it, but the way nobody seemed to care made me feel like I was being too sensitive or something. The fact that ABA is entirely a behaviorist model is really the root of the problem.

[-] Red_Eclipse@hexbear.net 55 points 6 months ago

Can confirm, my nephew was talking shit about his bullies on Discord and got arrested. He was only 14. I hope this is gonna radicalize these kids.

[-] Red_Eclipse@hexbear.net 52 points 7 months ago

Is it me or is the whole island about to pop off? It's entirely vibes because I've never been there, but I've just been hearing so much horrible news, and you know, it's an island... isn't that kind of like a pressure cooker?

[-] Red_Eclipse@hexbear.net 64 points 10 months ago

I feel bad for the person who lost their house. The guy had to ruin one more person's life as he went down, smh...

[-] Red_Eclipse@hexbear.net 54 points 1 year ago

Nah, rising up against fascist colonizers is awesome and worthy of celebration. I don't give a fuck how it "looks" to zionazis and their pearl-clutching libs.

officer-down isntrael hamas-red-triangle idf-destroyer the-boys-are-back-in-town

crab-party crab-party crab-party crab-party

[-] Red_Eclipse@hexbear.net 56 points 2 years ago

I relate to a lot of this, and I do wonder if it's an autism thing. Because like, I see a lot of lefties complain about libs as if they know they're thinly veiled fascists and are just pretending/virtue signaling etc, and they're always linking roderic day's thing about propaganda. But my experience was just nothing like that. It's like.... no, I literally just did not know lol. I always had good egalitarian-like values, and I was fed so much bullshit that I was just naively a liberal. I was a radlib for sooooo long because of all the other western 'leftists' being stuck in electoralism, defeatism, 'human-nature'-ism etc. The final thing that pushed me here was:

Wait, you mean communism ISN'T when no food?

Wait, you mean communism actually DID work and wasn't just a 1984 animal farm dictatorship ???

Wait, you mean it wasn't us libbies on the "right side of history", it was always the socialists, and basically every good historical 'great man' idol that we look up to (MLK, helen keller, einstein etc) was a socialist too??

THE COMMIES WERE RIGHT THIS WHOLE FREAKIN TIME????

Because my entire life I've been taught commie = evil, like, they're just The Bad Guys. It's drilled into your head. And then when you come up with something like "hey why don't we provide for everybody and make things fair?" it's always: "Nah, that doesn't work, it's been tried, and human beings are just too selfish to make it work."

And that had younger me like "Oh, okay... :( "

And our entire culture, media, news, history education etc is SUCH A FUCK that it took THIS LONG for me to finally get some real facts and be like wtf are you kidding me?!?!? The "villains" were right this whole time?!?!

Maybe it is like an autistic myopia for us. Maybe most people aren't like this...? I know it's more accurate that people's ideology follows their material interests, and for most of us westoids, our material interests are the empire staying an empire. And you could say that because I'm disabled, that means my material interests 100% align with the abolition of capitalism, therefore here I am. But there's definitely an element of like, bruh I did not KNOW. I wish somebody had told me sooner. But it's a wasteland out here in the west. I ultimately had to figure it out for myself.

And I'm glad I did, because unknowingly being a "communist waiting for permission to be one" is depressing as HELL man. I saw the BS of electoralism, reforms obviously were not working, I knew the necessity of revolution but I could NOT believe that it was ever possible, like the belief that humans are selfish and it just never works was so ingrained. So I literally felt like there was no hope. Absolutely nothing. We're just fucked and this is it and we're powerless to do anything about it. Total capitalist realism. The bleakest view of reality. Did you also go through this phase of utter despair like I did?

[-] Red_Eclipse@hexbear.net 74 points 2 years ago

Capitalist fascist USA with its so-called "threat" from communist China and nukes... are we literally in the Fallout timeline? strangelove-wow

[-] Red_Eclipse@hexbear.net 57 points 2 years ago

Did anyone else have the idea drilled into their head during school that Communism created mass poverty and a failed state?

I think basically everyone is, hence the "communism is when no food" meme. That's what they told me in school.

[-] Red_Eclipse@hexbear.net 61 points 2 years ago

and the traveler maintains a full-time schedule that enhances contact with the Cuban people, supports civil society in Cuba, and promotes the Cuban people's independence from Cuban authorities, and that results in meaningful interaction between the traveler and Cuban individuals, the individual's travel qualifies for the general license.

Lmao they make it sound like you're supposed to be some missionary of capitalism.

Hello Cuban people!!! Have you heard the good news about the Free Market?? so-true

[-] Red_Eclipse@hexbear.net 45 points 2 years ago

Same I have learned way way more about the world than in all my years of schooling and internet diving just by reading these megas and their recommendations. rat-salute

[-] Red_Eclipse@hexbear.net 49 points 2 years ago

Are they insane or is the whole two-party thing a big theater play and they're taking on the "bad cop" role? Or the stick, as in carrot and stick. Or the "heel" and the "face" of kayfabe. I just feel like they have to know what they're doing. All those teams of people working on campaigns and policies and stuff. Right?

[-] Red_Eclipse@hexbear.net 63 points 2 years ago

Dementia can progress very quickly. You can go from slurring words and forgetting grandkids, and then starving to death because you forgot to eat, all in a few months if it's a bad enough case.

And the president has access to the best doctors and treatments. And he's still like this in public. So you can tell it's gotten quite bad. This dude doesn't even know what's going on anymore or where he is, I bet.

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It takes up the whole damn screen and it keeps going a bit more lmao

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