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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by chrischryse@lemmy.world to c/relationship_advice@lemmy.world

I’ve been dating this amazing women for a few months then recently got into a relationship a few weeks ago, but she’s more sensitive than I am. I’m more laid back and don’t let things bother me and love dark offensive humor for shock value…she’s the opposite doesn’t like certain things said and say gets offended if I jokingly flip off (which I do to people I’m close to as a sogn of ironic love) for example. However our core beliefs like politics, religion, and personalities align for most part.

I’m not sure if this type of incompatibility is bad though and worried things might not last or how I can keep it. She did say she’s fine with me still being my full self around others I’m friends with just not her. Am I walking on egg shells?

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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by chrischryse@lemmy.world to c/relationship_advice@lemmy.world

So basically I understand that dating a black woman is different than a white woman. She mentioned she feels comfortable when someone is open to learn and takes initiative to learn the societal and cultural things that affect her as a black woman. I don’t know what this means. And the take initiative part confuses me. And I’m not sure how to go about it I’m very open minded to learn but should I probe with questions or more so reading about it myself?

I’d like this relationship to go somewhere (so far had 4 dates) but her telling me that felt deep and I want to make sure I take right steps

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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by chrischryse@lemmy.world to c/dating@lemmy.world

So I’m going on a fifth date with a girl I met. We’ve been talking for about 1.5 months now. I asked her if she was free Thursday night but she said no but is free Saturday night. We plan to go to a group event that is valentine theme. This is my first time ever having a date too 🫣

Anyway my questions are:

  1. So she got me a lovely gift on our fourth date because she loves gifting. I know she loves flowers especially tulips because they make her days better. Now I know tulips are “more serious” but would it be a bad idea to get her some (especially since it’s Valentine’s Day and the group event she’ll also get to take the item we make home) I don’t want her to get the wrong message with the tulips

  2. Along with texting and dating for a bout a month we’ve also had phone calls….ik it’s the fifth date but with all this time frame a good time just to inquire about where we stand? Like I’m fine if she wants to take it slow but I want to show her I’m interested in something more — Not sure if it helps but during 4th date is when she got comfortable with hugging and me picking her up

  3. After dropping her off after hugging can I mention how much fun I had and would like to see her again and say something like are you free Wednesday night? Or wait a few hours

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So I’m an on/off noobie but have been focusing on actually sticking with programming what I’ve been working on is Python but this question is for programming in general. For me it’s hard but I want to see how I can get better

Like are these good ways to get good:

Follow tutorials, then work on ways of adding your own twists or changes? Or trying to code it in something else?

Work on assignments from a resource you’re using like in my case Python Crash Course and attempt to redo the assignments without looking back?

Experiment with multiple libraries and library methods or built in methods?

Please share any other ways especially ones that helped you

Also when would be good to start a new language after learning one

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I enjoy matcha, however only drink it cold so far....would a set make a big difference if I start drinking it hot? And would it be a worth while investment?

[-] chrischryse@lemmy.world 32 points 1 year ago

Can't wait to hear them say "well he donated $5 to the democratic party 10 eyars ago"

[-] chrischryse@lemmy.world 44 points 1 year ago

Illl be sure to sign it

[-] chrischryse@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago

Well he wants to put it on dating profiles.

I just want to do it as not an ice breaker but as something I can bring up on a date while talking about other stuff if it’s relevant.

We are mostly doing it for the lols but figured it being an icebreaker was an extra.

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by chrischryse@lemmy.world to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

A friend and I (both 30yo males) are thinking of getting our pictures taken with the Easter bunny while wearing overalls and a propeller hat. my sister says it’ll be immature and that if I were to show a girl they would immediately be turned off.

We feel it’ll be funny and a good ice breaker with girls or anyone else for that matter. But now I’m kinda questioning it.

[-] chrischryse@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

Ok I can understand if he was caught with pot, drug paraphernalia, or drunk driving (without injuring someone).

But raping someone? Idc if you’re talented or have a bright future you should have it on your record or face a punishment like probation

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by chrischryse@lemmy.world to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

I’m a beginner who plans on getting my AWS Cloud Practitioner license, anyone have any tips?

I’m looking for good study methods, resources, and anything else that may help

[-] chrischryse@lemmy.world 122 points 1 year ago

I think he meant he doesn’t sleep with conscious women

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I lost the ones that came with my plugs, can I use hardware store ones or are the earring ones a different material

[-] chrischryse@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago

I'm really confused how can one judge stop this

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by chrischryse@lemmy.world to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

Fro some reason without paying much attention to the time duration it took a friend to reply I always end up replying within the same amount of time as my friends without thinking much of it, then I’ll see the time they sent the message.

If a friend replies in an hour I typically respond probably subconsciously in an hour (plus or minus 10 minutes), then realize it took them an hour after I respond. Idk why.

Is this something "normal"? Does anyone else do this?

[-] chrischryse@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago

Not a big book reader so can you explain?

[-] chrischryse@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago

So I'm confused networking stuff has never been my strong suit, is this saying you can still be fucked on public WiFi even if you connect through a VPN?

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by chrischryse@lemmy.world to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

My mustache hairs point down and look sloppy when I try to go full handlebar, what's the best way to tame it? Like should I brush it and blow dry after showering? Or something else?

[-] chrischryse@lemmy.world 31 points 2 years ago

Didn’t SCOTUS say it wasn’t legal for Colorado to do that to Trump?

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Say my deductible is 1500 and I need a procedure that’s costs $1000 but my insurance will cover 50% before deductible. A few months before the procedure I managed to meet my deductible though does that mean they will cover 100% of it or the 50% still?

If possible try to explain like I’m five

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I foudn this program https://www.thearmoredgarage.com/ and just wondering if anyone has any experience with it and if it's worth buying or not?

[-] chrischryse@lemmy.world 28 points 2 years ago

As an Italian I’d eat this, heck I eat pineapple on pizza and love it

[-] chrischryse@lemmy.world 17 points 2 years ago

I work in the IT section of a bank and they force a change every 30 days and can only have an 8 character password no more no less 🙃

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