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[-] BentiGorlich@gehirneimer.de 25 points 2 weeks ago
  1. "Thank you"
  2. "My bad"
  3. "I am not familiar with the subject so I have no opinion on it"
[-] i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

On point number 3, I once got dunked on for saying that I didn't know anything about the subject at hand when asked. The other person told me "Well, that's just a cop out. Just make something up!"

edit: clarification

[-] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 16 points 2 weeks ago
[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 3 points 2 weeks ago

Too much to ask, pure fantasy

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[-] justsquigglez@lemm.ee 11 points 2 weeks ago

I petition to bring back regular use of Kerfuffle.

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 6 points 2 weeks ago

I'll sign that petition no doubt

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[-] superkret@feddit.org 11 points 2 weeks ago

"lambasts" or "pillories" instead of "slams" in news headlines

[-] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 weeks ago

lambasts

Lambastes?

[-] NotSteve_@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 weeks ago

How about “threw Mankind off Hell In A Cell, and plummeted 16 ft through an announcer's table” instead of “slams”

[-] Grimtuck@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago

"Wow isn't life great since we went to the 3 day working week!"

[-] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago

Verisimilitude. It's just nice.

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 6 points 2 weeks ago

It's a good word! How would you use it in a sentence?

[-] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

Poorly! As I'm currently high and do not feel confident using it correctly!

Looks cool though!

[-] ZDL@ttrpg.network 3 points 2 weeks ago

The novelist's meticulous attention to historical detail—from the cadence of 19th-century dialogue to the texture of hand-stitched corsets—lent her story an uncanny verisimilitude, making even the most outlandish plot twists feel hauntingly plausible.

[-] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

I'm less high now!

I normally use it when talking about miniatures and toy train setups.

"The miniature painted conifers with bits of snow really have the scene verisimilitude"

I could still be very wrong.

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[-] ZDL@ttrpg.network 7 points 2 weeks ago
  • cerulean is a word that just has so much more class and gravitas than "sky blue"
  • gravitas is a word that simply has no other word providing such ... well, gravitas (dignity, solemnity, etc.)
  • charlatan is a word we need to apply every time a politician or a CEO or such speaks
  • the Holy Triad: whence, whither, wherefore
  • nubivagant is a word that doesn't mean anything like what it looks and sounds like
  • niggardly is another word that doesn't mean anything like what it looks and sounds like (and can get you fired if you have uneducated colleagues)
  • frippery is just fun to say

I would also like to see some further German words imported into English like we imported "Schadenfreude":

  • Backpfeifengesicht as an alternative for 'a punchable face'
  • Fremdschämen to express being embarrassed for someone who's done something cringe
  • Weltschmerz is a word I'll let you look up so you can see how it might be super-appropriate for this day and age

There's also a Chinese word I'd like to bring into English and make common:

  • 三观 (sānguān) which is pronounced kinda/sorta "san gwun", means literally "three views", and means idiomatically the alignment (or lack thereof) of worldviews, values, and ethics between individuals
[-] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 weeks ago

"cerulean is a blue dream." -- x-files

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[-] Krudler@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

"I was wrong"

I love being wrong, it's the gateway to new knowledge, but other people view not knowing through a self-esteem lens

[-] LucasWaffyWaf@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

Call it cheesy, but people need to tell each other "I love you" more often.

[-] 0ops@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago

Funny, I was gonna say "cheesy", but I mean "cheesy" literally, because I'm hungry

[-] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 5 points 2 weeks ago

I've always been partial to there- and where-compounds (thereupon, therefrom, wherein, etc.).

[-] WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Good forenoon to you!

Also, I'm totally down with referring to the days of the Week by their etymological roots. Happy Day of Thor to you!

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 3 points 2 weeks ago

Ooooh I'm 100% behind using the etymological roots. Good call!

[-] WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

May tomorrow you have an excellent Day of Venus.

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 2 points 2 weeks ago

Why thank you 😊

[-] ZDL@ttrpg.network 3 points 2 weeks ago

Surely you mean Star Period 4?

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 5 points 2 weeks ago

Gadzooks. It's just such a fun phrase.

[-] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 weeks ago

I love it! I'm also pretty fond of words like shenanigans and hijinks.

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 2 points 2 weeks ago

Ooooh those are good ones

[-] janus2@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 weeks ago

"Hi nice to meet you I'm your soulmate and future wife and I'm going to fix you and we'll help fix the world together"

(i mean if someone said that exact phrase to me I'd probably run screaming lol. But you know.)

[-] Libb@jlai.lu 5 points 2 weeks ago

"I don't know."

If we were honest, it's the thing we should all be saying and hearing all day long. But it's not. Quite the opposite, it's among the rarest. Instead, people are shooting their certainties at one another, relentlessly.

Not knowing something or not having an opinion on a question is not an issue. It's to be expected, even if we were all geniuses (I'm certainly not one). Not doing the work to inform oneself could potentially be an issue but should not be as long we don't pretend otherwise. It's when one pretends to know, based on what one has heard someone else say, or because one wants to push a specific narrative that suits them, that shit starts hitting the fan. That's when living together turn into the stinking shit hole it has turned into in which lies are fine (when they're not adored) and facts have become suspicious if not dangerous.

Obviously, I don't know what I'm talking about.

[-] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 4 points 2 weeks ago

No kings. United we stand. ✊

[-] shalafi@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Nae king! Nae quin! Nae laird! Nae master! We willna' be fooled again!

[-] smokinbud@lemm.ee 4 points 2 weeks ago

Smoke weed every day

[-] Nomad@infosec.pub 4 points 2 weeks ago

I love you. :'(

[-] Sammirr@aussie.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago

"proselytize"

Only came across the word recently.

[-] doctortofu@reddthat.com 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

"I disagre, but you know what? That's fine, let's drop the subject and have a drink or whatever!"

[-] ElderReflections@fedia.io 2 points 2 weeks ago

"NO! I will destroy you, and wipe your seed from this earth unless you agree that Batman Begins had some pacing issues at the end of act 1!

[-] lvxferre@mander.xyz 3 points 2 weeks ago

For me, the small politeness words are not "thank you", "sorry", or "good morning". They're "maybe", "I think", "perhaps", "I don't know". I respect honest doubt way, way more than I respect dishonest = rushed certainty, and I wish I saw more of that.

[-] backscatter@lemm.ee 3 points 2 weeks ago

"Bosom". Religious nuts shouldn't have a monopoly on the word. Also, it makes me chuckle every time.

[-] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 weeks ago

It's like the wholesome counterpart to "boob." Both kinda sound like what they describe, but "bosom" feels classy.

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[-] psx_crab@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 weeks ago

Old english stuff like thy or thou. Nothing practical, just for the lol.

[-] Sergio@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 weeks ago
[-] Floey@lemm.ee 3 points 2 weeks ago
[-] UpperBroccoli@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago
[-] Jayb151@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

My son has you covered. He calls me a "moisty boi" something like 100 times a day. I'm still not sure why other than it being some kind of dis.

[-] lordnikon@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I care about you but not just said to me but to between other people.

[-] TootSweet@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Does just broader vocabulary count? Maybe it's just a rule that everyone sits down with a dictionary every couple of weeks for 30 minutes just opening it to a random page.

Also, more latin phrases. That's cool shit.

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