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This is an open question on how to get the masses to care...

Unfortunately, if other people don't protect their privacy it affects those who do, because we're all connected (e.g. other family members, friends). So it presents a problem of how do you get people who don't care, to care?

I started the Rebel Tech Alliance nonprofit to try to help with this, but we're still really struggling to convert people who have never thought about this.

(BTW you might need to refresh our website a few times to get it to load - no idea why... It does have an SSL cert!)

So I hope we can have a useful discussion here - privacy is a team sport, how do we get more people to play?

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[-] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 10 points 1 week ago

Steal their identity and doxx them. They'll play along after that experience

[-] Paddy66@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

harsh! but might work lol

[-] Outdoor_Catgirl@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

People want to use the sites and apps that the people they talk to are using. I'm on hexbear because the chapo reddit was banned, not because privacy or whatever. 99% of people will always choose "app that lets me talk to the people I want to and also spies on me" over "app that doesn't do either of those."

[-] Paddy66@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

Totally - if the same functionality isn't there, most people won't switch.

What about having both running in parallel for a while?

[-] stupid_asshole69@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago

My first recommendation would be don’t call people normies. Not using a pejorative to refer to your subject even in private goes a long way towards being able to think about them more clearly. I’m not scolding you, I don’t care how you think about people but if you really want to get people to care about privacy the same way you do then it’s important to avoid stigmatizing them straight out of the gate so you can understand what is important to them.

I’d abandon the adbusters model of “here’s how you can stick it to the man and all you’ve got to do is change your entire life!” It reads as performative and relies on the false assumption that disorganized, individual opposition can lead to change. Instead, revise your message to focus on first recognizing the hostility of the information space around us and taking an appropriate posture.

I would also abandon any mention of self hosting. If you’re trying to get people to clear their cache and turn on adp and lockdown mode throwing self hosting in the mix is absurd. Oh yeah, and as a long time user and contributor to open source software, treating it as a privacy and security panacea raises a lot of red flags.

From the perspective of an old man with a lot of experience, the website has high school/college student energy. That’s not bad per se, but it may be working against your stated goals.

[-] Paddy66@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

I'll change the normie thing in the post - that was a mistake to use that term regarding privacy knowledge.

How could I reshape the message to be more about the hostility of the information space? Where would you start? I do talk about elections being swung, but since I've dumpted all billionaire-owned social media (and newspapers/tv news) then I'm actually not in a good position to write specific stories about hostile info. Your guidance is welcomed!

You're mostly right about self-hosting, but in my 'normie' journey (I'm using it correctly there) into self hosting I've found that there are actually a few wins that non-techie people can achieve: Jellyfin, Syncthing and Calibre. They all give back some data sovereignty. but I suppose until I can explain that, it's probably best not to even mention it.

As for the student energy vibe? lol fair. I'm rubbish at design, and probably so immature that my mental age stopped then 😂 In time, and if I can get any funding, I will pay someone to help with marketing and design. Someone quoted my £1200 to get some better visuals on there, but I just cannot afford that atm.

One thing I would like to do is gamify the process of changing away from big tech, but I'm not sure how to do that. Perhaps some web games baked into the site?

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[-] zephorah@lemm.ee 7 points 1 week ago

It has to be easy, low effort, and something there friends are doing too.

[-] Flubo@feddit.org 6 points 1 week ago

In my experience all the good arguments in governments that change, big companies making money etc are still too abstract to people.

But i have found one argument that at least made women and older men with daughters think about it. Stalking. With reverse image search and stupid people finder apps and ai that can estimate how you look now based on an old picture and vice versa, stalking got soooo easy. Anyone can just secretely take a picture of a girl they find interesting in public and find her social media profile and see where she usually hangs out etc. (Of course also all other genders get stalked - this is just the most known example).

[-] Dr_Vindaloo@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

That can work, but it could go the other way too. We've already seen scaremongering claims like "right to repair will allow creepy car mechanics to stalk your location", "encryption is used by criminals", "local image scanning prevents child abuse", etc.

[-] vk6flab@lemmy.radio 6 points 1 week ago
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[-] tazeycrazy@feddit.uk 5 points 1 week ago

What moves people is stories of why you should care. Getting these stories highlighted and then providing the solution (or multiple solutions) is a sure way to call people to action.

Devs and marketing then need to have an easy onboarding experience. But if people have a will they will find a way. Just don't be an AH when they ask stupid questions.

[-] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 2 points 1 week ago

Just don't be an AH when they ask stupid questions.

I got nothing to hide!

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[-] Paddy66@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

This. You're so right. It's stories that move people not facts - I constantly forget this!

I've made a note to use the blog to put the messages in story form - case studies.

Thank you for writing that!

[-] Auli@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 week ago

So can you provide some stories?

[-] Termight@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

One method is to put a $ on privacy. Consider this: if you were offered $5 for every piece of information you shared about yourself, would you still share it? Probably not. But the true cost is far less obvious, spread out over time, and often masked by the convenience of "free" services.

[-] Auli@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 week ago

I mean we already know people would go for this no questions asked.

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[-] corvus@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Tell them how governments, employees and scammers buy from data brokers the data collected from apps in their phones to surveil, blackmail or scam them. Do a research and send them a good summary with the links. When a told my brother in law about this, he was stunned. He's still using his phone as always lol, so don't have too much expectations.

[-] Paddy66@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

I've had a bit of success with this - a cousin for example was shocked by a report I sent him about the RTB system - but I worry that if I send too many of those kinds of info then people will think I'm some kind of conspiracy theorist. 😱

[-] Churbleyimyam@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago

I sometimes wonder if NordVPN has done more for the privacy cause than anything else, purely for the sheer amount of advertising.

[-] Auli@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 week ago

But most of their claims are false. And how does it do anything for privacy.

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I emailed you, but wanted to reply here that I love this! I don't have much to add as I'm having the same problem with my own project trying to make privacy easier for people like, say, my friends and family. They have to really WANT it to go through all those inconvenient steps of changing to alternative products. Even getting people invested in changing their app settings is hard enough!

I think the below commenter is right that people will start to care more when they see what's going to happen with their data under the new administration (in the U.S., at least). We all thought it was a good trade-off for free and cheap products, and soon we may be faced with our data being used to target us personally.

The only thing I can think of is, have you tried sending info about your sites to relevant news outlets, newsletters, etc.? I got a little traction from being mentioned in two newsletters: Cory Doctorow's newsletter and the DeleteMe newsletter Incognito. I'm planning on mailing out print press copies of my free book later in May...I have a PR friend who will be helping me with that.

[-] Paddy66@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

OMG your book is amazing! You actually sent me a summary version before, and I've just downloaded the full one. I'll add it to my Calibre library and share with others!

I love that foreword about the town square - "Are we in paradise yet?"

We should work together - you're right your book covers a lot of the same ground as my website, but just better written and better researched lol

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[-] cardfire@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

You're basically studying viral pathology and immunology at that point. Remember how restaurant little can be for making and for vaccinations in American culture?

On top of it taking the slightest effort ... We basically have to settle the solutions and then invite or incentivize them into it, which is hard when you're against disinformation networks with better fundling.

Not to say it's hopeless. Just that the incentives in a highly individualized society captured under surveillance capitalism are misaligned.

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[-] GrumpyDuckling@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I can use an sdr to read your water meter and determine how often you go to the bathroom, shower, wash your clothes, and when you're home and it's not illegal. I'm allowed to follow you around and take your picture as much as I want to. I can print off as many pictures of you as I want in public and wallpaper my whole house with your face and body, there's nothing you can do about it. I can do an 8 hour video essay about you and share this with everyone. As long as the info is publicly available (or not in most U.S. states), it's legal.

[-] Paddy66@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

Damn. that is creepy. Similar to the comment someone else left about stalking....

Maybe I'll so a series of case studies via the blog - thank you for sharing this!

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