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[-] FRYD@sh.itjust.works 6 points 3 days ago

I have something like your problem. I try to be really patient and caring, but it’s gotten to the point where I have a reputation among my friends and family for it. Now I have more people to support than I can handle emotionally. My battery isn’t dead, but now it’s like blowing a breaker if the draw on any given day is too much.

[-] Kyrgizion@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

Caregiver burnout is a thing. Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm.

[-] kambusha@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 days ago

Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm

Really like this. Is that from somewhere?

[-] Kyrgizion@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

It sure is, but I have no idea from where. Picked it up online long ago.

[-] Beebabe@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

It’s impossible for me. I always turn into the personal therapist. I see too much. And I can’t help it. Just ended a friendship over this because it was exhausting to maintain.

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[-] BCsven@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 days ago

To be fair many people out there are just becoming more horrible and its not worth your effort ;)

[-] Lukaro@piefed.zip 2 points 2 days ago

If my boss is in a talkative mood by the time I get home from work I don't want to hear another human at all.

[-] TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

I read this with pauses in the wrong spots and thought it was going to be some kind of joke that your boss was your wife or something

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[-] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

kicks you in the balls

Yes.

Want to be friends, but then never talk? Like ever?

[-] dontbelievethis@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 days ago

Sounds like my kind of friendship. I'm in!

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