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I’ve recently realized (thanks to another Lemmy discussion), that I have no joy, passion, or happiness left 🤣

I want to live vicariously through the collective! What’s bringing you joy, happiness, and/or what are you passionate about.

Let’s keep this safe for work 🙂

As always, thank you all so much for answering my questions! I hope you everyone is having a great day!!

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[-] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 1 points 10 hours ago

The natural world,alas it's estimated that.5% of the planet is unspoiled

[-] SwearingRobin@lemmy.world 7 points 20 hours ago

I'll preface this by saying I understand it might be hard to get into this mindset, I'm not trying to be patronizing or reductive of your feelings.

I try to appreciate tiny little things in my day. Pleasant smells, seeing the beauty of everyday items, the warmth of tea, how pretty the sky looks when I happen to notice it.

Along the years I've collected little things that bring me joy to use, like nice dishes and mugs, a pretty pen with a color I love to write my notes in, clothes I feel cozy in. I don't acknowledge them every time I use them, but they bring me little moments of appreciating what I have and the beauty of everyday items.

This is one of those chicken and egg things, I don't know which causes which, I can tell you I consider myself quite happy with my life, I'm very grateful for where I am in life, even though my family and I have been heavy a rough year in terms of circumstances.

As for passions, I love learning and crafting, lately I've been focusing more on sewing, but I haven't had much time to dedicate to it. I like spending time with my husband, just doing boring grown up stuff like buying groceries is better with company :)

I hope you get better soon!

[-] Deme@sopuli.xyz 2 points 6 hours ago

how pretty the sky looks when I happen to notice it.

I second this one with every fibre of my being. Look at the sky every chance you get. Clouds are beautiful.

Photography also helped me learn to keep my eyes open for all the pretty sights around. There's a lot more of those waiting to be witnessed out there than one might think.

[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 18 hours ago

I really appreciate your perspective and what you’ve brought to the conversation. True, not everything has to be a “thing” to have joy, happiness, etc. It’s cool, you are able to see that value in your world 🙂

As an aside, I have no sense of smell… which does have its perks!!

It’s great you’re in a place where simple things are what you focus on!!

Nothing was interrupted as patronizing or reductive. We all have different perspectives and views. Different feelings on a subject, etc. it’s all good.

I really hope the family matters resolve themselves!!

Again, thank you so much for the post!!

[-] dawcas@scribe.disroot.org 3 points 22 hours ago

I'm so effing depressed, so the best I can offer are distractions lol I keep going, but I miss the joy most of the time.

My special interests right now are plants, fishes and ants. In the northern hemisphere is a good time to find some queen ants, making diy homes for them is rewarding, cheap and it won't take a lot of space (at least for some time, until the colonies grow). Plants are great because a lot of people have them, so you can ask for cuttings and tips, and there are also studies about the benefits of having plants in your environment. Almost the same with the fishies.

If you find something interesting, even a little, try it. There's always time to leave it if finally that's not your thing.

[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 19 hours ago

I was completely unaware you could make homes for ants! I appreciate this post purely for the educational value!!

I salvaged some Spider Wort and that stuff is growing like crazy. I don’t even do anything to it.

Appreciate the kind words. Again, thank you for posting!!

[-] dawcas@scribe.disroot.org 2 points 18 hours ago

If you're interested in the diy for ants, even if just out of curiosity or if you like simply watching the process of making them, I'd recommend you channels like D colony or TexAnts. There's also AntsCanada, less on the diy and more on the craziness an ant keeper can reach lol

Spider wort is in the Tradescantia genus, right? I'm learning you have to keep them alone for them to thrive (I almost killed my T. zebrina and have an overgrown T. pallida). Seriously, you can even forget a cutting in the sun without water or anything and after days it will be like nothing happened.

Sometimes I wish I had friends nearby to give plants to.

I send you a /hug and good luck searching for joy!

[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 14 hours ago

Thank you so much for the links!! I will check them out when I have a few minutes. I also hope a few others find them useful or interesting and give them a look.

I wish I were smarter about plants. I’m not sure what genus they would be in. I just know, I can’t kill them if I try. It makes the front of the house look nice and I don’t have to do anything 🙂

Thanks for hug, right back at you!!

[-] scintilla@beehaw.org 2 points 20 hours ago

I've been really enjoying getting myself back onto Gentoo and relearning python. I'm a really techie person and love little gadgets.

[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 19 hours ago

Cool! I used to be into the tech thing… now, I’ve given up 😂

I remember getting Gentoo set up once but, couldn’t daily drive it. Just wasn’t for me.

I hope the move to Gentoo is seamless!!

Thank you!!

[-] hbar@lemmy.ml 2 points 23 hours ago

Brings me joy: a perfect french fry, a cool fall morning, the end of Big Fish.

[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 19 hours ago

Sounds like the simple things are your vibe! That’s awesome! I can’t remember the last time a ate a French fry 🤔

Soooo, looking up Bug Fish gave a ton of responses. Care to let us know which Big Fish you are referring to?

Really appreciate you posting!!

[-] hbar@lemmy.ml 2 points 15 hours ago

Big Fish is a Tim Burton movie from 2004, the ending is powerful.

[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 14 hours ago

Thank you!! I’ll add it to the list of things to watch… eventually 🙂

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[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 23 hours ago

It’s interesting to me the number of people I have met that find cooking brings them joy or happiness. It’s cool and all, but, for me a little odd. Probably because I eat to survive and not to enjoy.

I bet friends and family are appreciative of your joy of cooking!!

Thank you so much!!

[-] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

when you learn to cook food that tastes really good and that other people enjoy, it becomes much more than a survival activity and more like a hobby, though once you start you can't stop, I do all the cooking and baking at home 😅 To be honest, cooking gives my life most of its meaning, I am a cook more than anything else.

It does get harder to go back to poorly prepared meals, and you start to become dependent along with everyone in your family, as nobody wants to go back to box meals or restaurant food. You realize at some point you can't buy the kind of foods you can make at home. And it can be a lot of pressure to perform and deliver every day, but that provides its own rewards. In the end, I like working and producing something others value, and cooking is a rewarding kind of work.

[-] lordnikon@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

i have a very hard time feeling joy, but watching Star Trek or even watching other people talk about star trek brings a calming wave of contentment over me

[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 23 hours ago

I guess in a sense calm and contentment could be a form of happiness or joy. Not sure everything has to be a huge emotional experience.

The cool thing for you is that there are so many other folks who enjoy it. Plenty of people to share with.

Appreciate you posting!!

[-] Monster96@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

The last time I felt genuine happiness was when I heard my characters voices for the first time. The joy someone gets from hearing something they made become real is a happiness and excitement I can't explain

[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 day ago

That’s pretty awesome! Is this for a video game, anime, some other project? I’m sure we’d all like to know!!

Thanks for this!!

[-] Monster96@lemmy.world 3 points 22 hours ago

It's for an audio book I did for a novel I wrote. It's still in the process of being published so still not available yet but I still get shivers listening to it

[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 19 hours ago

I hope it is really successful and you go on to record many more!!

Good luck!!!

[-] fckreddit@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 day ago

Philosophizing. Programming and finally accomplish that very difficult task. Reading an unexpected revelation or an incredible quote in a book.

[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 day ago

Philosophizing is such a fun but kind of odd word 🙂

What’s your language of choice for programming?

Appreciate the response!!

[-] fckreddit@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago

Currently, I am mostly using C++. That is because C++ is the standard language for scientific computing, which is the area I love working on.

[-] the_abecedarian@piefed.social 8 points 1 day ago

Community with people, whether they're friends or just acquaintances from hobby groups. Making art. Reading good fiction. A better physical state from exercise, etc.

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[-] Sunsofold@lemmings.world 2 points 1 day ago

I don't really do passion anymore, but dogs are an eternal joy.

[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 23 hours ago

That is a very fair and valid statement! Animals in general always seem to be a bright spot for people. Unless of course said animal is trying to eat them… then maybe not so much 🙂

Thank you for sharing!!

[-] dkppunk@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Every Saturday and Sunday morning, I do my gardening.

I spend a few hours pruning my tomato plants, adding clips to hold up cucumber vines, check my eggplant and zucchinis, spray everything down because it all has powdery mildew, and I water all of my potted herbs and flowers. I start early, like 6:30-7am because no one is awake and all I can hear are birds chirping*. Eventually, the neighbors wake up and I can smell bacon cooking before I go inside and make my own breakfast.

*the birds chirping are usually from the hummingbird wars that take place on the hill behind my house. They zoom fast overhead and attack each other behind the hibiscus fence.

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[-] bigBananas@feddit.nl 6 points 1 day ago

My weekend mornings are doing it for me this summer. I just sit in the garden watching the birds, and my cat running after them, while I drink coffee for at least an hour.

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[-] Bloobish@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago

For me it's been getting into retro tech, some homelab stuff to pirate-jammin and stream , and getting into art (I paint minis but I'm trying to do 2d art now).

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[-] spacewave@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago

Finally doing my first ardupilot builds after years of watching rctestflight youtube videos...

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[-] Naich@lemmings.world 4 points 1 day ago

Making something and it works. Bonus points if other people think it's cool as well.

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[-] CuddlyCassowary@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Playing my dobro or basses. Really, making music of just about any sort.

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[-] mo_lave@reddthat.com 3 points 1 day ago

Anime! There's something about their way of storytelling that tugs my emotions no other medium can do.

[-] chillBurner@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago

Dance away your heartbreak

Dance away

You might make all your dreams turn into reality

  • Project A Ko, song 'Dance Away'
[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Awesome, will give this a look in between my next set of meetings. Thank you for sharing!!

Update: just gave this a look! Everyone following this thread should give it a click and watch!!

Great song!!

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