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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by underline960@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

For those who don't know:

Texts from iPhone to iPhone appear as blue bubbles, while texts from Android users appear as green.

For many in the US who still use SMS to communicate, the blue/green bubble divide is a huge source of social conflict.

What's your version of "If everyone knew this was a thing in my country, they'd think it was silly"?

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[-] mumblerfish@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

People doing ski slopes in the cheese. Some people don't care, some get angry.

In Sweden we buy large hard cheeses and use the Norwegian cheese slicer

to get thin slices for our bread. Surely a superior way of eating cheese on bread. Anyhow, if you apply the pressure wrong you will deform the cheese into a ski slope shape over time

Some people are unbothered by this, which is completely insane.

[-] TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 month ago

Are there people who really view it as a social division? I've never met anyone who seriously thinks that.

[-] makeshiftreaper@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

You probably don't interact with a lot of teens then. It's pretty common in high schools and college campuses. I was told a decade ago that my green bubbles were probably why women stopped texting me after I got their number off okcupid

[-] underline960@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Blue Bubbles vs Green Bubbles: Explained!

The "Blue" vs. "Green" Bubble War is Insane.

Why Apple’s iMessage Is Winning: Teens Dread the Green Text Bubble

https://archive.ph/u2GXB

Grace Fang, 20-years-old, said she too saw such social dynamics among her peers at Wellesley College in Massachusetts. “I’ve had people with Androids apologize that they have Androids and don’t have iMessage,” she said. “I don’t know if it’s Apple propaganda or just like a tribal in-group versus out-group thing going on, but people don’t seem to like green text bubbles that much and seem to have this visceral negative reaction to it.” Ms. Fang added that she finds the hubbub silly and that she prefers to avoid texting all together.

‘I’ve had people with Androids apologize that they have Androids and don’t have iMessage,” said Grace Fang.

Jocelyn Maher, a 24-year-old master’s student in upstate New York, said her friends and younger sister have mocked her for exchanging texts with potential paramours using Android phones. “I was like, Oh my gosh, his texts are green,’ and my sister literally went, Ew that’s gross,’” Ms. Maher said.

She noted that she once successfully persuaded a boyfriend to switch to an iPhone after some gentle badgering. Their relationship didn’t last.

Such interactions have made fertile ground for memes on social media. During the pandemic, Jeremy Cangiano, who just finished up his MBA at the University of Massachusetts Lowell, dealt with his boredom on TikTok, quickly noticing that blue-bubble-green-bubble memes were popular among young people. He tried to cash in on it last year by selling his own merchandise that touted, “Never Date a Green Texter.”

[-] TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 1 month ago

I mean, you can make a video about anything. That doesn't make it real.

[-] underline960@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

You asked a legitimate question, and I provided three sources describing the phenomenon.

Just because you haven't experienced it personally (or met people who have) doesn't mean it's not real, either.

Plenty of people haven't met a gay or trans person in their life, but that doesn't mean that they don't exist or that issues they face should be dismissed out of hand.

Dismissing the question doesn't add to the conversation. If you don't want to engage with the question, that's fine. Don't comment. Just downvote and move on.

[-] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

Unfortunately they're on Blahaj, so they've never gotten the downvote message that they're dumb.

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