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What's your boomer trait? (sh.itjust.works)

My boomer trait is that I frequently type in my password where the username is supposed to go. What's yours?

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[-] cyberpunk007@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago

I hate how tech is in everything now. Everything is IOT. Everything can expire because of software abandonment.

You know how you have those 70 year old fridges that still work? I'm sure that new Samsung IOT one will have planned obsolescence after 20 years tops.

You know how we have classic cars? Thing of the past. Locked firmware and phone home capabilities will brick new cars for similar reasons when they become old.

[-] ultranaut@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

20 years sounds incredibly optimistic for any Samsung appliance.

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[-] slazer2au@lemmy.world 14 points 3 weeks ago

Menus at restaurants are to be printed not via a QR code and a shitty website.

[-] loie@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

Related - I hate having that goddamned tablet at the table.

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[-] GreenShimada@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

To be fair, telling people to scan QR codes with their phones is a huge phishing vector. I've seen a few places with new stickers over the first one, which is very easy to do. Is it an updated menu? Or a scam page for a session stealer?

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[-] MimicJar@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

a shitty website

Or worse a PDF of the menu.

[-] med@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 weeks ago

That is 500Mb+ because the 'designer' just stuffed the highest quality image in they could as a background on the whole thing

[-] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 3 points 3 weeks ago

A date night is better when both leave their phones at home. Or at least away for the date.

This sucks.

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[-] 200ok@lemmy.world 14 points 3 weeks ago

I hate that every facet of human existence is being monetized.

[-] Washedupcynic@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I don't use tiktok, instagram, and I deleted facebook, it's all targeted advertising slop. My "friends" on facebook didn't interact with me, they interacted with my posts. I made a post stating I was going to delete facebook on X date, and if anyone wanted my contact information they should reach out before then. 1 person reached out to keep in touch. I refuse to download apps on my phone. I already have an internet browser on the phone; one app to rule them all. Why do I need a fucking app for what I can do on your webpage? I switched to linux because both apple and windows are in a race to see who can be the shittiest walled garden that invades your privacy and steals your data, so yeah, I'm still very much, don't trust strangers on the internet, including corporations. No I will not give you my information to get a discount or bullshit rewards points. I'll pay full price, my data is worth way more than your paltry discounts.

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[-] Hobo@lemmy.world 12 points 3 weeks ago

My boomer trait is that I frequently type in my password where the username is supposed to go.

Every time you do this change your password immediately. This is shockingly easy to find in logs and match up to the users. You'd be surprised how often application logs are damn near wide open in a log repo to entire IT departments. Just trying to look out for you OP.

[-] sylver_dragon@lemmy.world 11 points 3 weeks ago

I hate cloud based services. I don't want to be reliant on and send my data to someone else's computer. Give me local control and local data storage or get off my grass!

[-] lime@feddit.nl 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)
  • I don’t want to have to create an account for everything. Even when account creation was required in the past, it would be enough to have a username and password (sometimes email address). Now often times there are so many unnecessary mandatory fields.

  • I like my devices and appliances to have one dedicated function and to do it well, without extra features, preferably available offline. Music is listened to on the mp3. The TV is only the display and never the content source.

  • I still prefer in-person interactions, jobs, lessons, and shopping to online ones (but support having online options for those who prefer them).

[-] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago

I really don't want to deal with two factor logins and email verification for an account that doesn't have financial transactions.

[-] underreacting@literature.cafe 8 points 3 weeks ago

I prefer calling people to texting them.

But I also don't like being called.

I guess those are my two wolves.

[-] aeronmelon@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago

You’re a living personification of “Don’t call us, we’ll call you.”

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[-] janus2@lemmy.zip 8 points 3 weeks ago

I genuinely think you should be able to get a job interview by walking into a business and introducing yourself with a firm handshake

writing a billion versions of my resume with matching cover letters and manually inputting all the information already on my resume into individual application forms and then getting rejected by AI screening scripts is making me wish i was dead

[-] moondoggie@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

I’d call that boomer-adjacent. You think you should be able to, but boomers believe you actually can.

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[-] Boozilla@feddit.online 7 points 3 weeks ago

I think 99% of tattoos look like shit.

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[-] flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz 7 points 3 weeks ago

In person interaction is infinitely superior to anything done online. "Meeting" people online just doesn't hit the same, even with video calls.

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[-] agent_nycto@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago
[-] TriangleSpecialist@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Me too! Well, technically, the bank does own vastly more of my house than I do...

[-] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 weeks ago

Games used to be finished before they were released...bugs me.

Also physical media is hugely important to keep corporations from slurping up everything and charging subscriptions.

[-] MrIamsosmrt@feddit.org 5 points 3 weeks ago

I buy music instead of paying for a streaming service like Spotify

[-] HollowV@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

Being annoyed by my friends who can't put their phones down when I'm trying to talk to them because they are doomscrolling on TikTok. Oh and disliking the brainrot that is on TikTok and Instagram. Just hating TikTok.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

remember when social media was just stupid shit your friends were doing? and there were no influencers?

[-] billwashere@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

I despise the idea of an influencer. I hate the idea. I hate the word. I really do not like people that describe themselves this way. These people are the problem.

[-] HollowV@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

A lot of us took those years for granted. Now we're bombarded with people trying to sell us stuff. I'm sick of hearing "this video is sponsored by..." on majority of Youtube videos now and people using the cringy "sell-out" voice over-- the "come with me to blah blah blah".

[-] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 4 points 3 weeks ago

I'm often slow to adopt new tech. Unless that tech actually demonstrates a benefit to me, I don't really want to deal with.

A lot of this is due to cynicism regarding things like privacy/security, planned obsolescence, and enshittification. I also don't want to adopt something that is then discontinued ("unplanned" obsolescence?), so I often wait until something becomes well-established.

[-] immutable@lemmy.zip 3 points 3 weeks ago

I’m a software engineer that is also deeply uninterested in chasing shiny new things. I think another factor is that tech that I did care about has somewhat stalled out.

I’ve had iPhones since a I think the iPhone 4. I’m on the iPhone 11 which released back in 2019, I only really upgraded because my iPhone 8s battery was crapping out.

There’s just nothing exciting about these newer devices, same form factor, same OS, same basic functionality. And in a similar fashion, anything new is stuff I don’t really give a shit about. Oh it can do some kind of ai thing I don’t want, no thanks.

I’ve tried to see it as a positive. I have lots of stuff that I’ve filled my life up with, things that are meaningful to me. I think that’s what took up the space I used to fill with reading about and getting excited about this new gadget or that one. Now I’m excited to go see my niece’s Christmas recital or bake cookies with my wife to take to a friends of the library event.

Doesn’t hurt that every company seems to be in a non stop contest to see how little they can give the consumer for the maximum price while installing as much revenue generating spyware as possible.

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[-] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I had kids a bit older, so I guess some of my parenting is old school. I like to think I'm more open with feelings than my dad, and my children mean everything to me. However, I cannot abide other parents who let their kids dominate and interrupt adult conversations. Sometimes it's necessary, like if an infant has hurt themselves or some thing, but otherwise a child should not interrupt an adult who's talking and, if they do, the parent should tell them to hold on a minute while the adults talk.

[-] cobysev@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I've never used Instagram, Snapchat, or TikTok. I'm trying to get away from Facebook currently. I've successfully dumped Twitter, which I hardly used anyway. I only use YouTube because I can still block all ads, but if they ever force ads into my videos, I'll drop it in an instant.

I've never cared for social media except as a way to stay in touch with friends and family, and maybe a way to meet new friends. But modern social media is just garbage content pumped into your feed constantly for clicks and reacts.

The only reason I haven't let go of Facebook is because almost everyone I know is still there. If I dump it, I lose contact with 90% of my social group. I don't really use Facebook anymore though, except to contact people.

EDIT: On a related note, I don't believe children should have electronic devices. Maybe around 10 years old, they should be allowed to carry a locked down phone or something, so their parents can reach them, but they can't browse the Internet or send photos to people, etc.

It was around 2010 or so when I first saw a friend hand their iPad to their 1-yr old to keep them distracted. That was a $600 device! Which was a lot of money for a personal electronic device back then.

As an IT professional who had to fix electronic devices all the time, I mentioned to my friend that a child probably shouldn't have unsupervised access to an iPad, and they told me that's why it has a thick padded case; a lesson they learned when their first iPad got cracked by the child. So the baby broke a $600 iPad and they bought another and handed it back to the kid?! Sheesh...

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[-] DudeImMacGyver@kbin.earth 4 points 3 weeks ago

I avoid smart home type shit

[-] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago

Okay we need to talk about this because in my opinion this hasnt become a boomer opinion that, as proven over and over again, is just a better and smarter decision. Most of things that are "smart" dont need to be. Why does a fridge, toaster, TV, matress or oven need to be connected to the internet??! For what?!

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[-] ripcord@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Being older that some people, which is apparently what 30% of people call a "boomer"

[-] ghostlychonk@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

If you are in a restaurant with your small children, actually be a parent to them and still giving them a tablet that they will watch at full fucking volume so they won't bother you.

[-] ameancow@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I despise overly-liberal and even overly progressive-minded young people who are absolutely naive and delusional about society, and can only view the world through their bubble that gets reinforced by their friends and online social groups. And I ain't even talking just about tankies and people down at the bottom of internet brainrot barrels.

I am a progressive and believe in socialism and a borderless world and would fight to the death against fascism. But I'm seeing way, way too many young people tuning out of reality and supporting absolutely dumb-as-fuck takes and having unrealistic expectations about what's going to happen in our world.

The lack of ability to recognize how and why a side you oppose wins and gains power is a biproduct of living with those blinders. The dismissal of millions of people who don't think like you is just as bad as the millions of people who hate you for your identity. We have to get a lot smarter and accept a lot more hard truths about how we're going to keep pushing the needle towards progress. Sometimes you have to make sacrifices like getting out and voting even if you don't like the candidate. Supporting and physically getting involved with community and groups even if you're a self-diagnosed introvert with autism.

For some screwball reason, the concept of forcing yourself to do hard things so you get better at them has become very conservative-coded but it's how we've succeeded against evil for generations. We have to start being a lot tougher and stop balking at people who don't share all your values. We win with community and organized resistance, not constant scolding and trying to be the smartest lefty in line for the camps.

[-] yyyesss@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

I hear you and what you say sounds reasonable but I haven't actually met any younger people in real life that do that shit. The kids seem to be fighting mighty hard to me.

Now, closely related but I think different (correct me if I misunderstood you) I do know some real-life accelerationists who felt that not voting would "bring down the system faster so it can be replaced by something better" which is horribly, laughably naive.

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[-] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Which one, lol.

I despise videos in place of text/pic how-to.

I’m starting to run out of fucks to give when it comes to dealing with tech. Doesn’t matter what it is. Overcomplicated car infotainment. Burying features in deep OS menus. Shitty website design that hides info. Phone trees. “AI assistants” in pretty much everything. Etc.

I think most modern popular music absolutely sucks. No art, no ability to sing, all formulaic, a lyrical desert, and autotuned to shit.

It’s gotta be a mental illness, this constant need for public commentary via uploading everything you do to be viewed by others. Particularly things like “this is me crying because I got yelled at” kind of stuff. Vapid. Shallow. Go touch some grass and don’t fucking record it.

Yeah. I’m missing the more disconnected life we used to have.

(No, I’m not going to say it was all better back in the day. It wasn’t. Just our problems weren’t compounded by things like social media)

[-] dfyx@lemmy.helios42.de 3 points 3 weeks ago

I refuse to use overly smart devices. Yes, I have a few zigbee light switches and thermostats that are controlled by a local HomeAssistant installation but why would I want to by my fridge, dishwasher and toothbrush to be connected to the internet?

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[-] Akasazh@feddit.nl 3 points 3 weeks ago

Owning a house

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