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[-] I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Bird photography. I’m a person who tends toward depression. It was honestly very surprising the first time I noticed that when I’m photographing birds I have a huge smile on my face the whole time.

I’ve been learning the ins and outs of my camera gear for the last year and making small improvements is really satisfying. But really it’s just being out in nature, looking at adorable birds and capturing those moments for later.

[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 3 points 3 weeks ago

Someone else's genitals on my face.

[-] DeuxChevaux@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Walking my dog in a winter forest.

[-] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 weeks ago

Substance abuse and PC gaming

[-] spittingimage@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Taking a drive when it's sunny and traffic is light.

Cooking from a new recipe and having it come out good.

Sliding into bed on new sheet night.

[-] Lag@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

You could do all 3 at the same time in a camper van.

[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 points 3 weeks ago

I sure hope I never encounter you on the road while you're sleep cooking in your camper van.

[-] xylogx@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

Being loved and respected by the people in my life.

I found it by reflecting on the things that truly gave me fulfillment in life. Once you strip away the noise the only thing is left is the people in your life.

[-] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 2 points 3 weeks ago

I genuinely don't know. I only know what makes me momentarily forget about the lack of happines but I don't think that's the same thing.

[-] 1984@lemmy.today 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I would normally say thats strange, but after covid, I can only say its normal.

I want to go back to the 1990s but have to be here in 2025.

[-] portnull@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 weeks ago

Anhedonia perhaps?

[-] twotonebax@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

Being able to paint when I have time and can be alone

[-] Rhoeri@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

I’d say probably dopamine, serotonin, endorphins, and oxytocin.

[-] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 weeks ago

oxytocin

Unless you trauma-bonded with an abuser

[-] Rhoeri@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

You know it’s a naturally produced hormone, right?

[-] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 weeks ago

Yes, very natural.

Natural for mothers to yell at their kids, tell them they're worthless, then next day go "I love you".

(sorry I'm not in a good mood, anger isn't directed at you)

[-] Rhoeri@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

Apologies if this stirred up some shit.

[-] themaninblack@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Interestingly, oxytocin also augments in-group bias

[-] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 weeks ago

Lots of things. Working on a project, reading a good book, a nice meal, vibing in nature, pleasant exercise. There's a lot of suffering in the world, but that doesn't mean you can't enjoy everyday things.

[-] Truscape@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago

Knowing that maybe I brightened someone's day on the internet :)

[-] Lag@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Thanks. Even with a dark theme, your comment increased the brightness.

[-] Quilotoa@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 weeks ago

Making music

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 1 points 3 weeks ago

Fixing things. Mostly if it's for someone else.

Unfortunately as far as work goes, two of the things that make me most unhappy: driving, traffic, are tied to the job of fixing things for people so I quit that job :/

[-] toomanypancakes@piefed.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

It really depends. Sometimes it's drumming, sometimes going on an outing and doing car karaoke on the way, and sometimes I can't find anything that helps and just have to wait for unhappiness to subside.

[-] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Tinkering/assembling stuff and see it come to life. Bonus points if it's something my kids can join in on.

Other contenders: (good) food, music, weather

[-] tangled_cable@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Nature, the sea. dogs, cats, some family. Some friends. That eureka moment when you grasp a new concept, that's my drug of choice.

[-] nett_hier@feddit.org 1 points 3 weeks ago

Patterns in licenseplates For example this one: Licenseplate: TUT UT 323

[-] Strider@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Peace and harmony.

Not in the hippie way, but just calm and mostly quiet, no chaos.

Yeah the world isn't for me.

[-] thelsim@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 weeks ago

Cuddling with my partner in bed. Especially early in the morning, when I give myself an extra half hour to just stay close together for a little while longer.

[-] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 weeks ago
[-] Speiser0@feddit.org 1 points 3 weeks ago
[-] Demdaru@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

I had anhedony, and fought out of it for my partner..just to find out that, as long as I am not depressove, most stuff make me happy. Learning, improving, playing, frolicking, walking, biking, skating, programming...

Just need to be in a right mood. Sometimes, the most happy I can be is by just sitting, cup of hot cocoa in hands, watching some video with my partner. Just a bliss.

[-] lime@feddit.nl 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Spending time with my favorite people, helping others, finishing goals I set for myself, being outdoors, and listening to music are the big ones.

Then there are smaller everyday things like autumn and winter weather, good food and beverages, good books and films, putting effort into looking nice, and so on.

How about you, OP?

[-] ReiRose@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Caterpillers

[-] mrdown@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Music
Food
Watching dogs
Running
Play with my nieces

[-] Cassa@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago

my cat, my friends, FOG!, snow in the morning, a good cuppa coffee...

mostly it's having a nice moment to enjoy anything rly 😅

[-] Ouchie1@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Dopamine mostly

[-] alk@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago

Video games.

[-] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I moved from the equator to an area it snows occasionally. I used to use 3 electric space heaters to keep my place habitable. This year, one and it's comfortable.

[-] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

I never thought I’d say this, but going to work actually makes me happy. I work with autistic and disabled children, and man, they give me life. Helping them learn and grow, seeing them pick up and apply new skills, hearing their unique observations, and witnessing their creativity all bring joy to my day.

I’m currently waiting for my first learner of the day to arrive, and I know that when he gets here he’ll be making the most joyful squeals as he plays with his favorite ball. His smile is like caffeine mixed with sunshine, energizing me every morning even on the hardest days.

Don’t get me wrong, this job has its challenges, but the fulfillment I get from working with this population is immeasurable. It took many years of crappy jobs with crappy management before I got here, and I’m glad to say I think I finally found the job where I belong.

[-] ManixT@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

I'm glad people like you exist. You're making the world a better place

[-] HollowV@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Oh, thank you for this interesting perspective! It's kind of rare for me to hear people to say that they like their jobs because many of them despise what they do because (most of the time) of unfair compensation and unfulfillment in life. Also because negativity shows up more often on social media.

[-] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemmy.zip 0 points 2 weeks ago

Someone giving a crap about me and taking care of me. I take care of everyone and everything in my family and work. I had a short stay in the hospital for a surgery. Ironically, even with recovering from surgery, it remains one of my happiest memories because everyone took care of me.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

must be nice. never had that experience. been hospitalized a few times and nobody showed up, not even family. they just called and told me i was a selfish jerk for getting sick/hurt.

[-] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 weeks ago

I meant the nurses.

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