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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by DarkDiamondK@lemmy.world to c/adhd@lemmy.world

It hasn't been that much longer of a break for me (4 and a half day weekend), but new years doesn't usually have me going to several dinners like Christmas or Thanksgiving and I actually got some really good rest, but I'm extremely upset at the idea of going back to work, it doesn't help that I don't like my job, but I'm too the point that I want to breakdown and/or quit. I've had similar experiences in school, and I'm curious to see if others have this or just me

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[-] supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 month ago

Yes it is your body warning you about the degree of longterm burnout that you are being forced to normalize by life that it cannot.

[-] Diddlydee@feddit.uk 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I've been off since 18th December and have no wish to return. I want to continue to eat cheese, chutney, and crackers at home whilst playing Atomfall. Wage-paying Bastards.

[-] ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

I can't take vacations because if I do I'll quit my job.

I don't come back refreshed and relaxed. I come back pissed that I have to continue slaving away just to barely survive.

[-] DarkDiamondK@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Facts, Nothing like making somebody else rich

[-] TehWorld@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I on the other hand am ready for my kids to go back to school where they have instructors who are trained, and staff to cook, feed and clean up after them, as well as friends to converse with that they can get their energy out with as opposed to constantly being all up in my face. I LOVE my kids so much but the office is gonna seem like a vacation. Note that I’m COMMISSION ONLY so it’s not like I’m not in a somewhat stressful spot there either….

[-] plz1@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

I was laid off at the end of summer, and am just starting a new job this week. The level of anxiety is real, even knowing the new job is less responsibility (and money) than my previous one.

[-] Shellbeach@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

I'm a freelancer but can't really shoulder the financial ups and downs. So I worry I can't find a stable job but I also worry I will find a stable job.

[-] dimjim@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

Anytime I have more than like, 4 days off, I always have a worry in the back of my head that I'll forget how to do my job lol. Its never happened, but I still always worry.

[-] TragicNotCute@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

I get this ever time I switch jobs. Like “did I just forget a core skill I’ve spent my life so far mastering? I think I did. Or worse, I’ve been doing easy mode and now it’s gonna get too hard and I can’t do it”

But I always do fine 🤷‍♂️

[-] Someonelol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 1 month ago

I've been dreading returning to work for the past week during break. Even more so now that RTO is mandatory for the the whole company. I'm desperately looking for remote work elsewhere but it's been fruitless so far. Why can't upper management just let its office workers do their jobs the best way they see fit? The announcement from a few months ago already worsened the attrition rate to at least one engineer every week.

[-] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 month ago

Because they only know how to manage by walking around.

The problem is that the talent walks out.

this post was submitted on 04 Jan 2026
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