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Starting in early March, the platform will place every account into a default "teen-appropriate" experience unless it has proof that users are adults.

The move has brought widespread criticism from Discord users, who are citing privacy and security concerns following a recent breach of a third-party vendor that ended up exposing around 70,000 government ID images used to verify the age of Discord users.

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[-] radau@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 2 weeks ago

Maybe people will finally realize discord isn't the place for your projects documentation to exist

[-] rabbitcat@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 weeks ago

Exactly what I was thinking

[-] spicehoarder@lemmy.zip 13 points 2 weeks ago

Do it, pussies. I remember when sites would actually topple when they made poor decisions.

[-] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago

Why do adults have to suffer because parents don’t know how to control their kids?

[-] NotMyOldRedditName@lemmy.world 21 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Because it's not actually about the kids, the kids are just the excuse. That's all they ever are.

[-] bearboiblake@pawb.social 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Discord age restrictions prevent an underage user from viewing - but not sending - nude pictures.

This isn't to protect kids. It's to enforce increasingly authoritarian control over the web.

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[-] absquatulate@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

Discord probably did the math and are willing to take a hit to the user counts (much like reddit did when they closed the apis), as the vast majority will stay and keep "threatening" to leave. There's at least the hope that the ones who quit now will establish communities elsewhere, on a (hopefully) better server platform.

[-] random_character_a@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

Enshittification is not single step. It's more a "boiling a frog"-kinda process.

[-] dukemirage@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Discord itself was a big step of enshittification from the very start when communities moved from individual platforms to Discord servers.

[-] Th3D3k0y@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Sometimes I like to remember when Nitro was like 5 bucks and gave a bunch of stuff, and now it is 10 bucks gives less AND they still try to sell me fucking cosmetics...

I dropped my Nitro when they announced a possible buyout/IPO

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[-] NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 weeks ago
[-] Scrollone@feddit.it 5 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah, I agree. I hope Discord both fails as a company and as a concept.

Information siloed inside a non-easily searchable interface? No thank you.

[-] LifeLikeLady@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

TIL people actually pay for nitro lol.

[-] Korne127@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

I've probably paid around 100€/$ in total (been occasionally using and gifting Nitro since 2019 and regularly for about a year). I'll definitely stop it and using Discord if they follow through with this.

[-] derpgon@programming.dev 3 points 2 weeks ago

People always ask why even paying users exist - simple, I am a paying user myself, and by that I hold the power to actually cut their revenue rather than just leave the platform.

[-] MalReynolds@slrpnk.net 5 points 2 weeks ago

Here's hoping this gets more software off the discord support teat. No, you do not need real time chat, you need searchable, permanent presence. Discord support is such a red flag I immediately move on even if it's OSS. If you can't do real doco and you can't stand up a forum (Discourse is nice I hear) then what chance do you have of being competent.

Also, IPO incoming, expect it to get worse.

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[-] biotin7@sopuli.xyz 4 points 2 weeks ago

Yet again XMPP is ignored in the comments🥲

[-] whelk@retrolemmy.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

Stay strong partner

[-] muhyb@programming.dev 4 points 2 weeks ago

Don't threat

[-] NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I'm not threatening, I'm gonna do it. We'll see how my game jams go after this. I doubt my entire community will follow me.

Edit: I downloaded Element X for Matrix, and it seems to only be capable of creating a single chat similar to WhatsApp. Tried to download Revolt, and I cant get that one to even send me a verification code to my email. Starting of strong here...

[-] Voroxpete@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

Revolt is now stoat.chat. And I think they might be getting a little slammed with new users.

As someone who made an account a while ago, no issues so far.

[-] yes@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 weeks ago

Matrix allows you to structure rooms pretty similar to Discord. It's called a "space" that can then have rooms. Also Sub-spaces with more rooms. You can then manage access by inheritance or really granular on a space / room level. E.g. hidden / public rooms and spaces.

A few notes though:

  • If you can create a space / room might depend on the Matrix server you are on and what capabilities the server admin gives you.
  • There is always the option to completely self-host your Matrix instance - like Lemmy, Mastodon, etc. Depends on how tech savvy you are and if self-hosting is worth it to you ( can mean a ton of work).
  • I am not claiming Matrix is a full on Discord replacement. Discord has it's advantages, but so does Matrix if autonomy, privacy, security are important to you. Matrix does have also neat features and bot-ability... but it's clearly not as easy as Discord. Good enough for many FOSS projects / communities though.
  • IMO one key concept (besides decentralization / federation) that can be hard to grasp for new users is the concept of the recovery key that you get in addition to your username / password. Also does not help that there is "legacy" Element and Element X which add some confusion as they differ a bit in functionality.
  • Personally I really like Matrix. Cinny might be an alternative client that might appeal more to you than Element. If you are into self-hosting tuwunel might be worth a look (or matrix synapse if you want to go with the OG server implementation)
[-] ripcord@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Delete.it now

[-] Swemg@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Account deleted. Fuck em. Was already pissed with their restrictions with nitro.

[-] dissentiate@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 weeks ago
[-] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Already looking into alternatives. My friends and I are going to switch asap. They aren't that tech savvy, so it's pretty much up to me to find a good alternative and teach them how to use it. I don't mind tho lol

[-] anomnom@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

Good! locking away potentially helpful Q&A, discussions, and guides on Discord is fucking stupid.

[-] PalmTreeIsBestTree@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

I hope this means people will slowly start going back to forums. Highly doubt it though.

[-] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 2 weeks ago

Discord really is a plague for the open internet yep

[-] PalmTreeIsBestTree@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

I just want to be able to web search shit from forums like I used to be able to 10+ years ago.

[-] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

So sad to see things literally get worse for no good reason. Same with search engines.

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[-] Fredselfish@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

I sure did fucking sucks and they didn't make it easy. First had to delete all servers first then delete my account. Fuck Discord.

[-] Hawk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

My community just setup a Matrix instance and we're migrating everyone over. Several already cancelled their subscription.

I actually ran into a colleague in a random room, who is also leaving Discord.

It's pretty nuts, there's a big exodus going on.

[-] Telorand@reddthat.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

Don't even have to go that far. Just stop paying for Nitro. They'll get the picture when their revenue stream dries up.

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[-] Babalugats@feddit.uk 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Worried about the children while protecting thousands of paedophiles that raped children. (The governments, not discord)

Regardless, fuck discord and instead of "threatening" an exodus, why doesn't everybody register with xmpp or mumble and figure it out from there. Crazy staying on discord from here on.

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[-] nevetsg@aussie.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago

This sucks. Fully leaving Discord will be hard for me. One server is functioning as a memorial to my Clan leader who died of cancer.

Maybe I need to research a method of archiving or migrating the data I have access to.

[-] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

as soon as possible. you never know what could happen

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[-] weedee@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

https://s3nd.chat/

Made by the same team that did s3nd.pics (the imgur alternative. Under heavy Dev at the moment but has promise.

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