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Water usage is probably my biggest. Living in a high desert, my wife and MIL see no problem with filling one side of the sink with hot soapy water to wash a few dishes because “that’s just how I’ve always done it”, to watering the grass and plants for hours. All of this makes me mental.

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[-] BranBucket@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Neil Postman was right.

Our educational models and methods are changing for the worse.

TV and the internet are terrible mediums for public or political discourse and this has exacerbated many of our existing issues.

Our culture has become more shallow and has started to lack something profound because of how we utilize technology for education, business, and entertainment.

Things will not improve until we change our relationship with these technologies.

EDIT: several words.

[-] TootSweet@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

"Deserving", "credit", "blame", "justice", and related concepts are all collective hallucinations. We're all observers riding around powerless in robotic meat chassis and the part of us that experiences every bad and good thing we'll ever experience is completely disconnected from the part of us that makes any decisions. There's no "justice" in making sure someone who committed some atrocity experiences negative consequences. The "justice" system should be focused solely on rehabilitation and protecting people -- innocent or otherwise. Governments trying to be in the business of "punishing" people is misguided at best.

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[-] brynden_rivers_esq@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 month ago

The Sound of Music is not a Christmas movie.

My wife and her family and a whole bunch of Canadians all think it is and I am so flummoxed by it.

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[-] fizzle@quokk.au 7 points 1 month ago

Cashiers here have started saying "have a good rest of your day" instead of "have a good afternoon" or something.

It never used to be a phrase.

Its very common now.

I understand that language evolves and that this is probably used often enough to be dramatically "appropriate" now, but i just hate it.

Some how the grammar is just discordant and I find it jarring every time.

Of course, I dont tell cashiers about this grievance, because I appreciate them and I understand this is just me being weird and I try to get through my day offending the fewest service workers as possible.

[-] BananaPeal@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

As someone who used to work retail, I feel this. I have trouble socially and just want one phrase to mindlessly close out every interaction. I started with "have a good day," but as the day progressed, I would get more funny looks or comments like "...what's left of it." I'm sorry, is after 6pm no longer today? Today is a day, right? I ended up using "have a good one." While less formal, the funny looks and comments stopped.

People are funny. They think it's strange that I say have a good day as it's starting to get dark, but don't bat an eye at the fact that I'm only wishing them a good day. What about tomorrow? "I hope today goes well for you, but fuck tomorrow." Is the idea that they expect to see me every day? I deserve days off, too. I'm not going to be here tomorrow to wish you a good day, so maybe I should tailor it to my schedule to make sure you're covered until I see you again. "I have tomorrow off, so have a good couple days!" No, I'd have to change that every day... maybe "Have a good time until I see you again!" is better. What happens when I change jobs? I don't think I'll see them again, so I need to make sure their days are good from here on out? "Have a nice life!" That's worse somehow.

This reminds me of the end of sophomore year in high school. We were signing yearbooks, "Have a nice summer, hope you don't drown!" Thanks for the positive wishes, but now I'm going to worry about drowning every time I go swimming!

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[-] blackbrook@mander.xyz 4 points 1 month ago

If you compare it to "have a good day", it's longer and awkwarder, and the extra words are to avoid...the scenario of someone complaining that part of the day has already passed and can no longer be nice?

In the same vein of unnecessary specificity: I hate when waiters ask "how is everything tasting?" I have to resist replying that it tastes great but it's cold and the texture makes me want to gag.

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[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 month ago

Communism is good, necessary, and achievable.

[-] Routhinator@startrek.website 5 points 1 month ago
[-] peacefulpixel@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

there is literally no possible usecase for Generative AI, it is modern day snake oil. nothing could possibly justify adding yet another "technology" to the list of existing tech that is already scorching our earth and enslaving people. it was created by the CIA to bolster the surveillance state and i have considerably less respect for someone when i find out that they use it for any reason at all.

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[-] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago

Just in response to your annoyance, I have found women ive been around tend to have more of a "fuck other people and the climate" attitude than most of the guys (its usually not that abrasive, just more of a "why wouldn't I water my grass? We have the water" attitude). Especially if there's kids, they dont care about anything else (that's just biology I guess). Please dont take this as sexist, it is just something ive observed.

I get very annoyed with people wasting unnessesarily and using amazon.

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[-] Bronzor@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Religious people are one the biggest reasons as to why we are where we are today. Anyone that tries to "respect" these delusions are also culpable. It's the best invention to sedate the masses in their cage since sliced manna.

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[-] DavidDoesLemmy@aussie.zone 4 points 1 month ago
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