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I just come to vent. I'm in the middle of a trip that supposedly would be vacations. But bickering with my (soon to be ex) girlfriend has ruined everything and I practically sacrificed my BD for this. I know I screwed some shit I have not a great excuse. I handling too much shit and knew I shouldn't have come but did so much to come anyway. I shouldn't have risked it. Now I have to go to Ushuaia with a silent treatment. I should have stayed brought NMS and played it instead of fucking all this shit...

Edit Super quick context last year was shit my mother died I was married and we got separated at the start of the year. My shit job got worse and it was already toxic enough. But come mid year I meet my current GF we feel in love and we tried to have our first vacation together. It didn't fully go like shi there where fuck ups but I fixed it. Still morale didn't improve.

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[-] ChicoSuave@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I know I screwed some shit I have not a great excuse.

It's challenging to take your side when you don't even forgive yourself. The complaining about a birthday, saying you should have turned inward and ignored the world for a video game, how you are making yourself the victim....

I'm sorry. It sounds a lot like self inflicted consequences and venting by a manipulative person rather than an actual victim complaint.

[-] S_H_K@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago

Now that some time passed I realized I mostly needed to get the shit oit of my system.
There is not much context to what I so I guess I'll add one in an edit.
I'm not asking you to take a side, it doesn't need to be a side. I admit the consequences of the shit I threw on myself. We're both at fault for different things relationships work like that. I shouldn't have done the trip I was already on my limit in more than one way. She shouldn't have thrown all the shit onto me with an "or else". There was no need to be so mean about some things, that puts me under stress and I fuck up double onto it. IDK maybe I'm nust an idiot or adhd I swear I checked the schedules but now turns out they were wrong. I need help I admit. I was onto therapy last year but some BS bureocracy got me out of it I should had got another but needed the money for the trip and other shit so I procrastinated it. We were just delaying the breakup rather than giving us a chance. I'm not saying this with Monday's newspaper at hand. I had my doubts before and tried to dismiss it. That was the first mistake and all the ones that came before they gone in money and emotional damage. I feel like shit I owe up to my mistakes I don't want to think that I deserve it, no one should feel miserable like this. But I admit my part and will try to learn... I'm tired as fuck...

[-] TheLunatickle@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 week ago

Brain Dance? I've been playing to much 2077...

[-] S_H_K@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago

Birthday

[-] jimerson@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

Sorry mate. Hope you have a brighter future.

What is NMS and BD?

[-] Zagorath@quokk.au 2 points 1 week ago

Pretty sure BD is birthday. Not sure about NMS. No Man's Sky, maybe?

[-] S_H_K@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

Yep both

[-] jimerson@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Makes sense to me!

[-] accideath@feddit.org 1 points 1 week ago

My guesses:

BD = birthday

NMS = No Man‘s Sky

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