"Show me someone who makes no mistakes and I'll show you someone who isn't working"
No one's life is as perfect as it seems. They have the same problems as you, you just don't see it.
That perfect picture from your Facebook friend showing their children smiling and happy on Christmas day was preceded by 2 hours of yelling and telling the kids "shut up and smile for the picture or you won't get to open any presents".
Sometimes a quiet Christmas with unruly children is actually better than the "perfect" Christmas your friends seem yo be having.
You're enough.
I made you a sandwich, honey.
No one knows what they are doing.
You're the only person who can pave the path that you're on. It's never too late to pave a better one.
I’ll get the phrasing wrong, but:
Wanting to love yourself is already the beginning, because from where does the desire flow?
Honestly, someone once told me "f★★★ 'em. They're a bunch of p★★★ scared of you living but too chickens★★★ to kill you themselves." And that made me really stop and think for a time. My spite for a time became my motivation.
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