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[-] Taako_Tuesday@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

I've got a nonbinary friend who presents somewhat feminine, and they always say that anyone who finds them attractive is gay by default. So I guess what I'm saying is I'm not totally straight

[-] crystal@feddit.de 0 points 1 year ago

Wouldn't finding an nb person attractive be hetero attraction? Since they're of a different gender?

[-] Taako_Tuesday@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

I guess it depends how you define it, i feel like most people define hetero as being exclusively attracted to people of the opposite sex than you

[-] Squirrel@thelemmy.club 1 points 1 year ago

They're using the (Greek-derived) scientific definition of "hetero" (i.e. different) vs "homo" (i.e. same). By those definitions, any cisgender + non-binary pairing would technically be heterosexual.

[-] cnnrduncan@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yeah I define myself as heterosexual cos I'm not attracted to people of the same gender as me. I'm not non-binary so being attracted to/sleeping with an enby person is not gay, at least according to how I define my own sexuality.

[-] LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

I'm not straight, or a guy, but yes

[-] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 0 points 1 year ago

I like boobs and pussy

That's the definition of "straight guy" right?

[-] Sneptaur@pawb.social 1 points 1 year ago

Would you date a trans guy

[-] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 0 points 1 year ago

pre-transition? Sure

I don't like dicks though

And it would probably be difficult with me going "I love your boobs" and they're always like "I hate my boobs"

[-] Sneptaur@pawb.social 1 points 1 year ago

That's so strange. You're just attracted to people's body parts?

[-] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 0 points 1 year ago

That's how it works for the vast majority of people.

Not like personality doesn't play a role. But certain body part combinations are a requirement.

[-] Sneptaur@pawb.social 1 points 1 year ago

Pretty weird

[-] chumbalumber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

Not if you're a woman. Or if the boobs/pussy belong to a dude

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