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Hello comrades and welcome to the first improvement megathread of December! bonfire

How was your November?

Do you have any goals for December?


Poster caption: Chairman Mao gives us a happy life

Mao zhuxi gei womende xingfu shenghuo

毛主席给我们的幸福生活


Good luck with your goals! soviet-heart

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[-] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

gymrat shit, weightlosslady-doge

Have hit the gym everyday for the last two weeks and am down five pounds overall, probably more fat than that and I've gained muscle mass and intermuscular water weight from creatine but I'm pretty consistently on around a -1000kcal deficit daily and fueled by hypomania and something something trembling with indignation at every injustice che-poggers

spoiler drugs, nicotine, sobriety Relapsed on cigarettes under heavy stress, disappointed in myself for that, gonna try quitting again after this pack and going back to vaping and zyn and eventually getting off nicotine altogether but that doesn't seem realistic for me currently

Kept up my no booze streak aside from a small champagne flute with Thanksgiving dinner (mwwaaaahh the French champagne has always been celebrated for its excellence)

Been doing small amounts of psilocybin as a self run depression treatment experiment and I feel like it's been really helpful? I take just enough to start feeling it physically and get a little funny feeling and like some rusted over neural connections are getting refuckulated but not enough to hallucinate and it's been nice? I'm enjoying music a lot more than I did for a long time dealing with major depression and I want to get back into practicing my instruments and learning new pieces and get a new amp and modest bedroom recording studio setup (and an extended range guitar and 6 string bass, but that might have to wait for next year financially)

All in all, making a lot of good progress. catgirl-salute

Things are still rough mentally sometimes, but I keep trying to remind myself to treat myself as decently as I would treat someone else I care about who's struggling under the same kind of circumstances

Doesn't always work for me, but it helps

Stupid brain, be more nicer to yourself

peppino-whybrainworms :::

[-] moonlake@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

Congrats on your Ws rat-salute-2

I've heard about microdosing shrooms, I'd like to try it one day. What music have you been enjoying?

[-] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

St. Vincent's Masseduction

BTBAM 's Colors and Colors II (the first one was my absolute favorite for YEARS after it came out and I fell outta listening to them after Parallax II but just checked it out on shrooms after relistening to the original lmao and enjoyed it

Meshuggah's Nothing and Catch 33

Vildhjarta's whole discography

GY!BE's whole discography

RTJ's first two

Death Grips' Bottomless Pit

Lil' Ugly Mane

Deafheaven's Sunbather and New Bermuda

Liturgy's Aesthetica and The Ark Work

(I know, I know, hipster black metal but I think they're good and really interesting despite HHH being a crank and related to a Poppy Bush associate oil fortune lmao)

Arnault Pavle's discography (early Darkthrone worship but they're fun imo)

[-] moonlake@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

Wow these are some good picks flannel-yellow

[-] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

kirby-jammin

Being less depressed and enjoying music again fuckin' rocks tbh

Oh forgot, The Dillinger Escape Plan's One Of Us Is The Killer too

[-] Rojo27@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

Routine took a hit this past week. I kind of expected it with Thanksgiving and all, but I also hurt my knee. Gave it a bit of a rest and I've been wearing a brace whenever I go out, but still feeling a bit sore. Did go back to the gym yesterday for some upper body work just to try and maintain my routine. I'll probably give it another day or two and if it still feels off I'll probably go see a doctor about it.

[-] blight@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago
  • walked every day but shorter rounds 3 days
  • ate semi-shitty food a couple days but somewhat unshittified it
  • continued low energy
  • went to a party and drank a handful of small glasses
  • finished reading a lighthearted book
  • did laundry twice
  • got groceries once or twice, although a little heavy on the treats side
[-] LGOrcStreetSamurai@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

Hell yeah walking is the one of fundamental self improvement things that I think gets gravely overlooked. Moving those legs and getting some fresh air is critical to creating a better self great job!

[-] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Been touching grass a lot more lately too, big recommendation too. touch-grass

The cardio and leg exercise is obviously good, but I feel like a nice walk is even better for my mental health. Just setting aside some dedicated time to unwind walking and clear your head pays dividends for dealing with stress and helps me be more mindful and focused in the other things in my life. I'm bad at just sitting and meditating, but I'm pretty good at putting one foot in front of the other over and over.

(Flexibility work/stretching routine is good for that too. I'm surprisingly limber now considering my size and build, I can plant my palms in the ground straight legged touching my toes for the first time in more than a decade.meow-bounce )

[-] moonlake@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago
[-] LGOrcStreetSamurai@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago
  • My gut is vanishing, ab like shapes are becoming visible. I will become as it's my moral duty as a leftie dude
  • Reading still strong. Starting Wheel of Time for the first time.
  • Game Development going well. Have some basic 2D platformer functionality.
  • Grinding leetcode because I need a job and sadly the stupid leetcode thing is a part of the hustle of finding a computer nerd job in 2024
  • My circle of friends seems to be shrinking, not getting texts back from people. I don't know if that's good or bad, or it's on me or on them
  • Getting back into playing games I love rather than playing games to pass the time.
  • Did some worldbuilding for my "dream project". I created the some Sea gods that the pirates worship for favor or pray to avoid their wrath.
  • Watched several game development behind-the-scenes and interviews on GDC from real indies to see what it's really like to make a project from zero
  • Listened to an audiobook version of W.E.B. Du Bois "The Souls of Black Folk"
[-] moonlake@hexbear.net 1 points 1 month ago

What games have you been playing?

[-] LGOrcStreetSamurai@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

My big ones are sci-fi games on is Prey (2017), Deus Ex, Dead Space, and Alien: Dark Descent.

[-] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

Hell yeah, all solid picks jfk-gaming

[-] moonlake@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

My November started well but then I got sick as hell for the last 2 weeks. I have mostly recovered now so I'm getting back on the horse. My biggest W this month is that I did a lot of reading.

December is one of my favourite months so I would like to take it easy and relax if possible. The improvement grindset will continue in January, until then I will try to enjoy the vibes feral-hog

[-] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

meow-hug

get well soon

Whatcha been reading? Any good recommendations? I've been slacking on my reading lately unfortunately

lenin-tea

[-] moonlake@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

Thank you comrade! soviet-heart

I finished reading How Not to Die by Michael Greger, which is an amazing book about health and nutrition, more specifically the whole-foods plant-based diet and it's many health benefits. It has a lot of useful and actionable info. I highly recommend it to everybody.

Based on your other comment, I recommend Easy Way to Stop Smoking. I haven't read it myself but I've heard it being recommended many times so maybe it's worth a try unity

[-] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

Will check that out, thank you. pain

I've been trying to reduce my non-vegan-v intake too so that other recommendation is helpful too Care-Comrade

I have a fairly Mediterranean diet but cutting out cheese and deli meats has been rough lmao

anti-italian-discrimination

[-] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

diet, disorganized eatingBeen keeping about a -1000kcal deficit and cutting fat the last two weeks being really active

Slipped last night and ate a huge snack before bed and had way too much salt intake and feel pretty shitty about it

I pretty much erased all the work I put into cardio yesterday in like 10 minutes and it wasn't even like I was famished or anything, I just started snacking and couldn't stop myself

aubrey-cry-1

Today's a new day I guess

[-] LGOrcStreetSamurai@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

Today's a new day I guess

That's the best part of this whole self-improvement thing, so long as you have a new day you can make progress. Keep at it LocalOaf, your they/them powers will help you on your journey. Stay encouraged friend solidarity

[-] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago
[-] Wmill@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

It's been a while since I gym'd did mostly cardio last night and tonight will do more cardio. Honestly I'm getting into the mindset of just trying to sustain effort for 15 minutes at a time, those last minutes when I'm so tired and just manage to pull through is rewarding. I feel like keeping the struggle up is more important than how fast I'm going or how heavy I lift.

[-] Wmill@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

Cleaned my room a bit to move an exercise bike into it in front of my set up, I'll do my best not to over do things as I do but I'm on a quest of improving my cardio a bit heart-sickle

[-] Mokey2@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Technique:

[ ] RLRRL 60 Scale 8 trips 16ths 5 each

[ ] KRKR 65 -70 Be able to count and lead with foot

Brush Groove:

[ ] 10 mins @ 15bpm

[ ] 10 mins @ 15bpm + of 4

Groove:

[ ] 15 w cymbal 5

[ ] 15 w Ted Reed pg 38 15

[ ] 15 2 feel ted reed 10

Transcription:

[ ] Philly Joe Jones on Art Pepper - Imagination AP Chorus 1;28

Active Listening:

[ ] Suggested Listening Album

Tune Learning:

[ ] Darn That Dream

I decided I'm not going to deep dive the tunes I'm learning because I really need to learn more songs.

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