I think I'd still rather know than not. Would hurt.

One of my daughters looks like me the other "looks like it's mother" but I'll do the test when I have some savings. And I know who the father is if it were. Worst of it poor kid father is a disaster, I think he knows is his, cause he come to see her from time to time. The "uncle" brings presents only for her. But calling him deadbeat father is compliment. I'm taking charge cause she has no one else, is not her fault what we did.

While the infidelity would surely hurt, anyone that would change their opinion of the children they raised because of something like this was a shit parent from the start.

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