Can't answer question directly. Just, when I was your age, there was so much I needed to learn. Every person takes time to figure things out, overcome shortcomings, work thru stuff.

At 21, lot to figure out, discover, learn. For me, cuz childhood abuse, trauma, autism, I was a mess. No idea how to have healthy relationships, positive communication, etc.

So, could be your dude is just young, figuring stuff out. Or could be something else. Only way to know is to ask, talk about it. No assumptions, no judgment. Communication is key.

Might be useful to research how to communicate effectively. How to talk about stuff in not about criticize, instead seeing other person's viewpoint, meeting half way. Problem is, other person may not want to or be able to.

You're doing good, asking questions. Keep doing that, and good luck.

Perfect, free even better. Will definitely look into that.

Sleep with me. Never heard of that podcast, will check it out

That's what I've been using. My favorite youtube channel is "relaxing white noise." Unfortunately cuz all I can find is continuously looped audio of rain, ocean, etc, it's the continuous loop causing the problems.

Tiny handle, small, would be to slippery to handle with blood involved.

I'm the same way, most song lyricsare incomprehensible gibberish. So you'll probably recognize this catchy line: "wrapped up like a douche in the middle of the night"

Awesome show. Yeah, I'm a bit iffy about how it ended, but it could've been so much worse.

Um... hold out your hands like you're holding an imaginary box. But instead of a box, it was a visible, undulating, holographic field, and he'd dip his head into that field. I remember computer displays behind him, it was his specialized work station. A few other shipmates would make fun of him for disconnecting, zoning out so much.

The phantom tollbooth. Flatland.

Was worried about buying onions, peppers, and them going bad too quickly. One onion, one bell pepper. That will work

There's one like it in the sf bay area. Called Oakland technology exchange East.

I took 2 years of Latin in high school, but that was decades ago, so you may be right