This is purely anecdotal of course, but most of my (male) friends and family members who resist going to therapy aren't really turned off because of access to a specific service tailored for them or not; they're "turned off" from it largely because of the social perception of men going to therapy in general.

What I mean to say is, no, I don't think we need more therapy "tailored" towards men, all (decent) therapists already specifically try to bend their particular therapy-ing style to match their client, regardless of gender. We need to change the perception of what it means to get therapy (at least in my opinion).

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Hello all! Just curious what y'alls typical setup is when it comes to running multiple stacks which require the same "support" containers.

What I mean is, say you want to run two services that both require a connection to a database, would you run two separate DB containers, one for each service and have them connected only to their respective DB "stacks"? Or do you prefer to run a single centralized DB server/service and have your self hosted stacks all communicate with their own databases inside the server?

Of course they're expensive think of how much labor it takes to put them in the damn shells!

That the only resource a person intrinsically has is time, and that everyone's time is worth the same and invaluable.

That's why you gotta go back in a few years and spell out "I want a divorce"

If I don't get to be happy neither do they

The edit: omg thank you for awards/upvotes comments just feel like such a self-congratulatory circlejerk, as if the point of the post was to "win" at reddit by getting the most points. The "meta" around reddit itself became less of a discussion and more a game to play to get the most points.

To be clear, I don't directly hate the "thank you" post edits, I dislike that they're a symptom of the "meta" of reddit becoming less around the links it aggregates and more around itself, maybe?

I remember being introduced to reddit years ago. It was still new and unknown, there was in-jokes and cringey bacon narwhal shit I don't even quite remember. It was fun, it was cringe, it wasn't doomscrolling it was genuine engagement and I really enjoyed it.

Then the longer I spent on it the more hostile it became. Almost every comment thread is full of contrarians looking to argue with you just to get more upvotes and edit: omg thx 4 awards!!11! bullshit, bots "correcting" people's spelling and telling you how many consonants are in reverse alphabetical order in your username omg so cute! it just became regular, boring old social media.

Then the leadership bullshit kept just getting worse and worse and worse, every time you hear anything about what reddit (as a company) does it's just more and more hostile to users. The API/app changes and the way it was handled was the last straw. Users don't hate reddit, reddit hates it's users, the company has shown nothing but contempt for the users and unpaid moderators for years and I'm just sick of it and that long term animosity coupled with the last set of changes? Yeah, fuck reddit.

The enemy of my enemy is not my friend applies here I think. Kotick sucks and needs to be gone and I'm glad for that but I don't think this solution to that is much better long term for gamers and consumers.

I'm a big fan of the saying that "time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time" for that exact reason. If you want to do nothing then do nothing, that's perfectly okay!

What is sad, though, is that I feel like this is saying you get so tired and burnt out from working just to survive that even when you get time off you don't get to enjoy it or do things you want because you're just so burnt out from working.

Personally, no. Facebook/Meta has instilled absolutely zero goodwill in me as a platform and as a product it brings nothing new to the table to entice me in. Their userbase size is their only potential benefit, and tbh that has never been a draw for myself.

And that's all assuming they actually respected my privacy, which I don't believe for a moment they would ever do.

At one of my previous gigs our boss was big on the "double the devs/half the time" mentality. Our favorite response was 9 women can't make a baby in 1 month

I dunno what the fuck Valve put in that thing but a hot Steam Deck has a scent I could pick out of a landfill it's incredible lol

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