[-] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 7 hours ago

Where do you think the people with current above average shooting skills started? You think they were just born that way? :D

[-] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 days ago

It's easier and nicer. But it's also shitty because of what you mentioned.

The thing is, that's how it's going to stay unless people stop using it. You can get this info you mentioned somewhere else, or simply don't need it, as I said, yes it's harder and less nice to live without it, but it's not like you can't live without live traffic data or whatever. Start using CoMaps, contribute to open street map, leave reviews on other review aggregators, etc etc

[-] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

There are a lot of good points in there, the historical part especially highlights good parts why feminism is necessary.

However, studies show that women simply don't want to be CEOs at the same rate as men. Women personally want to be more in domestic/caretaking roles than men. Women want to take more maternal leave than men. Now of course you might try to explain these in terms of existing structures that push women to think like that, but how do you explain that women in "more equal"/more feminist societies actually more heavily lean into these differences?

Have you ever thought about the remaining gender pay gap being because women want to work less, thus having less experience, thus being paid less for less experience? There are studies that, when adjusting for these differences, find that the gender pay gap is actually 1% or less. It then stands to argue that the gender pay gap has not changed since the 90s because since then, for all variables adjusted, women already get paid the same as men. (Logically, if women were paid "too little", in our hyper-capitalistic world, you would see that companies made of women would severely outperform those made of mixed/male workforce, since companies made out of women workers would have severely lower costs. The fact that this is not the case tends to point towards pay being roughly equal. Anecdotally, I personally know 2 women who were unhappy in a "feminism-pushed" leading role and switched to a more classically women-associated work, and becoming more happy as a result of that.)

I love feminism and it is overall a good thing, but the sole problem I have with it is that it wants to eliminate "too much" inequality. Some inequality is desired because men and women are different in some ways. The hormonal mixture is very different, with hormones strongly affecting our behavior. Thus, it is expected that behavior between men and women is different, thus differences should exist. I don't think the work is done for feminism, but I also think it's doing too much/the wrong thing in some places. Obviously, there's also a massive difference between regions in the world, Finland needing feminism much less than idk, Afghanistan.

[-] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I think it's a fundamental failure of feminism/people to make men think that they don't deserve a voice, even in support of women.

[-] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 days ago

Probably because the poison has "useful" side effects. Or tradition.

[-] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I've never heard of this. Can you please give some kind of context?

[-] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 4 weeks ago

Stop having a goal with women specifically. You talking about experience and success with women is literally the total opposite of what makes sense.

Just have fun with a person. You have had fun interacting with people before, right? Just do that. The literal only difference is that you can sprinkle in some sexual innuendos or some shit, if you think of it. If not, also fine. Then go home and resume what you always do. Repeat.

If while doing this you ever notice some sexual tension, just do something sexual. Touch them. Or tell them you find them attractive. Or ask to kiss them. Whatever, it literally doesn't matter. If they don't like it, you'll likely notice because they tell you and then you can do something different. If they like it, you'll also likely notice, and continue escalating from there. Touching platonic -> kissing -> making out hair/neck/back-> touching sexually titties/butt -> touching pussy. Natural progression.

If you notice something afterwards, while thinking about it (like someone giving you obvious signals that you completely missed), if you can, just respond to the signal as soon as you notice, don't think "now it's too late". In fact, it's never to late until you tried it and it didn't work.

But yeah, I can't stress this enough. The most important thing is to not expect anything. In fact, maybe you'll never have sexual contact again. It's best if you're content with nothing but masturbating for the rest of your life.

[-] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 1 month ago

Binding the interface is definitely the recommended way to go about it, it was in some manual when I first informed myself about torrenting. But it's not required and easy to miss if you don't consume correct resources, it's not obvious.

[-] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 1 month ago

It's a bit ridiculous to me why you'd think that we'd be the last humans to exist. Habitable zones will keep existing after climate change kills 99% of the population. Even full-scale nuclear war will leave most dead, but not all.

The remainder will probably keep reproducing and survive. Even 0.001% of our current population would likely mean humanity would continue.

What else do you think would make humanity 100% extinct?

[-] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

See how many people here share your troubles? There's no shortage of people like you. The thing is, like you say, you have to stop putting up with people's bullshit. When you notice bullshit, confront them with it, and if there's no way of reconciliation, move on immediately, don't try to "put up" with anything. From what you said it seems like you hold on to toxic people too long.

Also, have you ever thought about that you might also have "BS" that other people would have to deal with when they want to create a deep connection with you? Do you think that's absolutely impossible?

[-] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 month ago

You forget the alternative mindset:

An active desire to see traditional ways of funding to disappear, and the media along with it.

[-] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It's confusing because it doesn't make sense, what is it the left/right third of? There is no feature on the controller that has any amount of sequential things. There is no identifiable "first" or anything ordered anywhere.

That's why these buttons should be called LS, LB and LT for stick, button and trigger, which is still not perfectly intuitive without knowledge of the layout, but better than 123.

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