[-] CraigCabbage@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 hours ago

Ouu!! I’d love to federate it once i learn how!

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I made a forum site!! (sh.itjust.works)

Was looking for somewhere to post this.

I made it yesterday!!

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Maybe it’s like my experience: They act quite defensive and only hang out with a few people. It seems they feel threatened by “outsiders”. Even when they’re not hurting is, we in turn feel threatened as well. Why is that?

Often, these people themselves are seen as outsiders, maybe picked on, went through trauma, etc. And even I don’t want to feel such a way, but I do feel some sort of “uncanny valley” by their behavior.

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[-] CraigCabbage@sh.itjust.works 5 points 23 hours ago

No I mean like an active one with more people

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I want to promote my site but I don’t want to be disruptive

there is, but certain users get downvoted

Yes. Let’s be civil

These people sound verbally abusive. No, this is not a normal response.

What’s pressured speech?

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Do 13+ instances exist? (sh.itjust.works)

I know world is not. I wanna make one but haven't rn.

[-] CraigCabbage@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 days ago

could perhaps be BPD as well but I'm not a professional and have little psychiatric knowledge

[-] CraigCabbage@sh.itjust.works 27 points 2 days ago

THERE ARE 4 LIGHTS!!!

[-] CraigCabbage@sh.itjust.works 19 points 2 days ago

Bipolar here. I saw you had Bipolar, it’s possible that she might. I used to think that people didn’t care about me either due to my attachment issues.

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submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by CraigCabbage@sh.itjust.works to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

My Abuelo says:

  • he will not rewire things with the router

  • he wants me to find a way to create a Lemmy instance without Ethernet, just the regular Wi Fi connection without a router or anything.

This rules out what I was going to use, Yunohost. While I have the USB, I don’t have the router (it's full), switch, or Ethernet Cable and Abuelo doesn’t want to buy one nor does he want me to buy one.

He thinks it’d be less time consuming if I found a way to self-host without that stuff, just through Wi-Fi, and I don’t know how to program.

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I have a USB stick with 32GB. However, I cannot hook an ethernet cable to the computer and router because all the router’s plugs are being used.

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I'm gonna ask my Abuelo for a USB so I can run Etcher and Yunohost for my instance. I want to choose the name craigsworld.net (like how lemmy.world's creator chose lemmy.world). How does the site naming through Yunohost work? How much does it cost?

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I plan to have people type an application to register but will deny creeps and obviously bots. What would be the best questions to ask/way to tell that someone is a creep with ill intentions?

I have some ideas, but I’m looking for more, actual ideas from the Lemmy community. Ex: (if I make it a 13+ instance) What age range do you plan on interacting with? What do you plan on talking about with these people? What do you plan to do here?

CraigCabbage

joined 3 days ago