[-] KindredAffiliate@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago

Thanks for having the balls to say this, because yeah, I immediately noticed this.

[-] KindredAffiliate@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Oof. My mother has borderline personality disorder (BPD), and I have definitely felt similar to this throughout my life.

Have you checked out r/raisedbynarcissists or r/raisedbyborderlines?

Fyi, if you haven't learned it yet, you will learn soon in your life that attempting to help/fix her is an absolutely pointless endeavor. Point blank, full stop. It only hurts you. Cluster B personality disorders (which your mom shows sooo many signs of) are notoriously terrible at being helped, even by trained therapists. You must keep her at arms length, and focus on healing yourself.

[-] KindredAffiliate@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

A therapist would be very helpful in navigating your relationship with her.

[-] KindredAffiliate@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Yes I think I found it, kwin_wayland is segfault'ing randomly, causing the whole session to crash and restart.

Not sure how to fix that though ...

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by KindredAffiliate@lemmy.world to c/linux@lemmy.ml

I'm on arch, using KDE. AMD CPU and GPU.

For the last few months, my computer will occasionally go into a TTY briefly and show a few things (way too fast to read) and then shoot me back to the desktop where every program that was running is closed. Almost like a mini crash.

Super weird. I tried looking in /var/log, but couldn't find anything relevant.

Anyone know what's up with this?

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by KindredAffiliate@lemmy.world to c/linux@lemmy.ml

More specifically, Portage. I know use flags and "optimization" are all the hype, but really, would the average user even see a benefit from customizing all their use flags? Especially a benefit that compensates for the constant compilation?

I installed it once to help grow my e-peen, but immediately switched back to Arch after watching my system compile.

Those who daily drive it, do compilation and use flags annoy you, and do you see any real benefit?

[-] KindredAffiliate@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago

I forget there are linux-friendly laptops nowadays.

[-] KindredAffiliate@lemmy.world 28 points 1 year ago

If you want to disable Intel Management Engine, the always-on backdoor built into every Intel CPU and/or want as much software as possible on your machine to be FOSS

Also it boots much faster than most stock bios.

[-] KindredAffiliate@lemmy.world 45 points 1 year ago

It's an open source bios. There are only builds for a certain few laptops and it involves opening it up and flashing the bios chip

[-] KindredAffiliate@lemmy.world 157 points 1 year ago

You forgot "Only uses 10+ year old librebooted Thinkpad" on tech paranoid

[-] KindredAffiliate@lemmy.world 42 points 1 year ago

Grats on Arch Linux install, S-tier distro for what it attempts to accomplish.

For some reason, the best word to describe it in my mind is "fun". Just fun to learn and play with, fun to install, fun to configure and customize, and fun to daily drive. Definitely not fun when a random package update breaks your system (looking at you grub), but that hardly ever happens anymore provided you don't enable the testing repo.

Also pacman is the fastest package manager I've ever used.

[-] KindredAffiliate@lemmy.world 95 points 1 year ago

Mozilla try not to be based challenge (impossible)

[-] KindredAffiliate@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

This is awesome. If only my upload speed wasn't trash.

[-] KindredAffiliate@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

For those who don't know, it is decently rare to see wildlife in Denali when compared to somewhere like Yosemite or Yellowstone. The winters are so cold, dark, and harsh, that 1 in 3 animals die every winter. Also, each animal needs a huge amount of space compared to other parks, because they have to eat crazy amounts of food to stock up fat for the winter.

Btw, it is a beautiful park in a beautiful state, and mount Denali is a stunning site if you are lucky enough to see it on a clear day. Everyone should visit Alaska at some point in their life.

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