Which would you say is the most neutral/ open to anything? Or I guess most federated?

Was that someone you?

Done that, now how do change servers? Feel free to direct me to tech support if this is not your idea of fun

I have no idea what that means

I was under the impression that any server will have access to any instance? Is that not the case? Do some of them limit ? I would we looking for the one that limits nothing

Great, I am using voyager. How do I achieve the same goal?

Say it ain’t so… I’ve found a certain sense of authenticity with the limited engagements I’ve had as a noob here on Lemmy. It’s what’s bringing me back. But if you are right, then this is just the beginning of the onslaught. People used to post nudes coz they wanted a reaction or thrill. Now it’s a business… until I get hit with the official link I am going to live in my fantasy world of believing you are wrong until you aren’t , then I will return to share my shame 🤣

Haha it must be!

Yeah I understand that, i feel the same about the things I say. And the things I allow myself to enjoy. Posting my body is something I have never done , it scares me to think about it but at the same time I’m sure it is thrilling!

Honest question, how does it feel to post this? Like what does it make you feel?

It was a shock, but at the same time it gave so much credit to all the other things he did. Never faked it, was most joyous in the face of death over and over again.

Thanks for taking the time to write all that, it is very interesting. I have heard similar theories and too have come to the conclusion that i most likely will never find the complete answer. I know I discovered it round about the pubescent age, but didn’t really understand what was going on. Only later on I started to indulge in it, If I could call it that. I do however remember the first time I told someone about it and got completely shamed, which in turn lead me to be very secretive about it. To this day in fact, literally only told 2 people. Well 3 including the guy who shamed me about it.

I have also come to realize that people don’t understand how strong the arousal is. It is literally like seeing an amazing pair of breasts or an ass etc. which are generally more common assets for arousal. The difference however is that it’s absolute commonplace for women to show their feet and toes. So as a fetishist you could be confronted with awkward situations at any point place etc. However there is a misconception I believe, that most people who don’t have the fetish think that we get aroused by any feet. Which is absolutely wrong, it’s the opposite, I am only attracted to a specific feet, and actually pretty disgusted by feet that don’t meet my type.

Anyway, this is my way of anonymously sharing my thoughts about something that I deal with everyday, yet keep secret. And I love having the fetish, because the level of arousal is unmatched with any other body part, and when they do all line up together, it’s a whole other level. Haha thanks again