[-] Plantfoodclock@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Great job, and good luck! It might be hard and take some time to get back into the swing of things, but take it day by day, moment to moment and things won't seem so tough.

[-] Plantfoodclock@lemmy.world 14 points 8 months ago

I think it comes down to your level of analysis, or how you define relations. Having been living off $30-40k income for most of my life, I can definitely get the sentiment of the large differences between that and someone making $100k (even $60k), or at least someone living a working class vs middle class lifestyle. But that also goes for someone making $0-10k to $30-40k. Either way, the salience of financial insecurity hits a lot harder for someone with less existing cash.

That said, I also get the sentiment of the nil difference between working and middle class versus the ultra rich who generate huge swaths of passive income and can basically can dictate whether or not the lower classes have enough for rent. Why bother fight against each other when there's a much larger and casual target.

In a more nuanced answer, for solidarity sake we do need to recognize our similarities to work together for a better system. But that doesn't mean we should ignore our differences and privileges either. We should work towards achieving core necessities for all even at the cost of our own privileges (i.e. an opposite tragedy of the commons: those with some threshold excess contribute to the pond). Determining that threshold is another question, with both absolute and relative poverty thresholds with their own criticisms. And not to say that no class hierarchies will form either, technically skilled and heavily laborious jobs should be rewarded, and people will always try to skim a little off the top to get ahead of their own benefit. But in recognizing our differences, we recognize a need to monitor ourselves for the benefit of everyone.

[-] Plantfoodclock@lemmy.world 21 points 9 months ago

Honestly, I do wish more people used Lemmy, especially for more posts and engagement for certain communities. But also, I like the smaller user base on Lemmy. I only lurked on my old reddit account because it was too populated to have real discussion. Here I feel more comfortable commenting or posting because it feels like there's a chance my comment will be seen. Also, I just don't care all that much about being on social media anymore. Feels better to have more healthy activities.

If Lemmy ever picks up, great I guess. If not, oh well. As long as I don't have to use that godforsaken reddit app, I'm fine.

[-] Plantfoodclock@lemmy.world 10 points 9 months ago

I think aquariums tips, outdoor movies night, etc. sound like fun ideas. But one thing to keep in mind is how much of an "event" a hangout might be, and whether that might turn some people off.

It's like the difference between planning for a beach trip with friends versus just taking a spontaneous dip in the pool with your friends on a hot day: one feels more effortful than the other. And the beach trip, or planned events, might be the more fun choice. But after a long week, etc. a lot of people just want to do something social but more chill and effortless. Just being able to enjoy the moment with their friends. Which might be part of the reason why bars are really attractive for that kind of thing. You just go out, grab a drink, chill with your buds, and go home to relax. No real structure, more just down time.

Again, not dismissing those ideas. Definitely good in moderation. But just chatting with a friend over lunch/dinner, at a cafe. Hang out at the park at the end of the day. Things of that nature and effort should also be important. Even if it feels small, it can be the nicest part of friendships.

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Job hunting morale (lemmy.world)

It's been months now. I've been applying to dozens of jobs per day, adjusting my application to the position, working with agencies, getting feedback from recruiters, trying to network, improving my skills, volunteering as a research coordinator, etc. I've had interviews but unfortunately haven't received any offers. I know it's a matter of time and luck, but I just don't know how to keep my morale up at this point. Does anyone have any recommendations to share for myself and others going through this struggle?

[-] Plantfoodclock@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

https://youtu.be/ZNn-tNe0s2A?si=ZTeSMnMIo7BiOsWk

So not exactly a full game or released just yet, but Bloodborne Kart has that retro look and is based on a modern series. Seems like a cool and funny concept and wanted people to know about it.

[-] Plantfoodclock@lemmy.world 8 points 10 months ago

I will say my holidays are definitely not as bad. My family never really celebrated any holidays besides a few prayer days for the deceased, so never really got into them as I've grown up. My cat though has been having problems with a UTI and likely CKD, and I've only really gotten her eating in the last couple weeks. Mostly meat sludge, no solids. I'm hoping she pulls through with the UTI and the CKD turns out to be at a lower stage. But I adopted her when she was 8, as a mature cat, so knew what I was getting into. Luckily she's been around to be almost 14 now, but I'm just afraid I won't have many more months or years with her. Plus the stress of finances, unemployment, and other responsibilities has been taking its toll so I've been crying more lately. But I'm doing what I can to help my situation.

[-] Plantfoodclock@lemmy.world 8 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

https://youtu.be/CKgKPGBa9EQ?si=JH7qla5miBDBAi5p, there's a shorter version but I think this is the one I saw last time I was in the South

[-] Plantfoodclock@lemmy.world 22 points 10 months ago

Does the Folgers Christmas commercial show what white brother/sister dynamics are really like?

[-] Plantfoodclock@lemmy.world 12 points 11 months ago

"I don't care who the IRS sends, I'M NOT PAYING TAXES"

[-] Plantfoodclock@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

I always get a little sad to see a dead animal, but this is really well preserved. I don't know if you could do much with it, but it feels like a waste to just trash it.

[-] Plantfoodclock@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

I really like this. One of those small moments of love you will cherish forever

[-] Plantfoodclock@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

It's too bad r/longfurby never migrated here, I miss seeing the little ~~freaks~~ furbs

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