If I had to pick, I prefer submissive over dominant.
However, what I really want is an equal, a partner who knows what she wants and expresses that. Speak and I shall provide, less demanding want, more needing want - seeing, hearing, feeling her pleasure is like music to my soul. Loving, fulfilling and completing one another. Someone to take on the world with.
Corny as hell maybe, but a man can dream <3
Probably not unless it was someone I trusted very much and had discussed this beforehand.
I think this post would be more appropriate to discuss on /c/Fediverse@Lemmy.world but as the only current active mod in this comm I'll give my five cents.
This whole thing is way too complicated for the fediverse in its current state, with most of our small communities having maybe only a handful of active users. Besides, many instances are hosted with very differing aims. This sort of system might make sense on an instance like lemmy.world, run by the fedihosting foundation, but many others are run by private individuals as hobby projects. Whilst I think it is a good idea for both admins and mods to be held to the same standard as everybody else, I think it is more important to encourage a diversity of instances.
What's the sexiest you've done with an internet stranger?
If you had to be as subtle as possible, and wanted to turn someone on, how would you do it?
Sure, but preferrably with company.
Clearly she dyes them black
If you haven't tried it, audio porn. Turn off the lights and the screen, put in some earbuds and close your eyes. They're often slower burn and at least for me is usually a much better experience than video.
Underpaid and overworked 😑
Nya(r/n)lathotep - a.k.a nyan nyan
Sort of yeah. I find myself attracted to one set, and have an aversion to the other.
However, the attraction sort of hinges on the idea that they are attached to a person. Even with a close-up, the mind imagines that there is a person, and I prefer a complete view to a close-up. I'm not attracted by sex-toys of the appropriate shape.
Now this is someone seriously applying rule 34 by invoking the second clause (rule 35)
For myself - probably the sides of my neck. It's not sexually loaded in the same way as other areas, but basically only romantic partners get to touch there.
Also quite sensitive for me, an unexpected brush there will instantly put goosebumps on the corresponding arm and be quite discomforting. Loving attention however.... <3