[-] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago

idk dating posting, idk what to even call ithaha maybe i am not ready to be friends with my ex situationship i saw them on feeld and it gave me some baaaaaaaaaaaad feelings in my heart and soul deeper-sadness maybe i'll get over it by the time it's time to see them this week. if we're friends obviously we'd want to be able to talk about each other's love lives but i feel like that's something that's maybe wiser to work up to than to dive into right away and i was not at all ready for the "stumble upon them on the sex app" introduction to all that. feeld is so fucking stupid in terms of its privacy features also, idk if you can block people at all and you definitely can't do the tinder and hinge thing where you block your phone contacts

[-] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago

after careful deliberation orange monster > white monster

[-] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago

c'mon, Soylent. it's literally just "hey ex-lovers name. how are ya?" no reason to clam up with anxiety, mane.

[-] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago

i think that's mostly just frequent posters getting a sense of each others personalities and developing lil internet friendships, idt it's terribly power dynamic-y. also idk about anyone else, but after the site introduced lil profile pics i started recognizing my recurring chapobuddies more.

[-] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago

the people i keep rematching with over and over again on the apps where the match always fizzles and doesn't go anywhere are kinda comforting. like we're each others perennial passive companions/observers on our respective dating journeys.

[-] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 8 points 7 months ago

cult of bhaal some baby ass candy land bullshit compared to American Civic Religion, ong

[-] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 8 points 8 months ago

its been a minute for me but having someone u Like Like think ur funny is like a prime human joy

[-] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 8 points 8 months ago

im a gentle but fricked up soul who's too freakin brittle for this to be my condition; the phantom pain of the thwarted and drained wellspring of creativity & love in my heart ever-aching b/c of this whole freaking mess. this world i s too dang twisted for a little guy like me : /

[-] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 8 points 9 months ago

i just mean that i'd like to go for a walk there, jeez ya'll i'm still hanging in there

[-] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 8 points 9 months ago

being ruthless to systems and loving to people is something i try to practice daily and which took me a while to arrive at (i know im badly paraphrasing what he actually said but i think the basic intent is there)

[-] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 8 points 11 months ago

echoing Sekiro cuz i tried playing it like other from soft games first run. embraced that it was different second attempt and its one of my faves now.

[-] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago

Hell hath no fury like a softboy scorned

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