[-] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 5 points 4 months ago

I don't think any popular instances defederated .ml though?

[-] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 5 points 6 months ago

This is known and quite popular genre of porn.

[-] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Disclaimer: Am not an USian but an European.

https://shs.cairn.info/revue-francaise-de-sociologie-1-2007-5-page-101?lang=en

This is a French journal about fear in women and how it affects their mobility. Whenever someone says

the risk of a fragile, shallow, unhinged, emotionally unstable man going berserk and MURDERING her.

it pops in my mind. The data they gathered suggests that women fear of violence is unrelated to actual rates of said violence happening, but is correlated to past smaller transgressions ("anticipated violence"). Long story short, if you were ever catcalled, or given a [clumsy] compliment, you're likely to imagine ("anticipate") out-of-proportion violence in multiple contexts.

The actual crime rate and crime gender proportion (in the US) - https://counciloncj.org/womens-justice-by-the-numbers/ - violence victims rate is 60-70% down since 1984 and since 2009 men and women are as likely to be the victim [before that men were most likely]; and the number of women perpetrators grown up. Oh, and the homicide rate by spouse is also closing the gap (although some studies suggest that the increase in women killing their husbands should be attributed to them not being dismissed as potential perpetrators by the police force)

I'm not dismissing your feelings OP, and your strategy seems very prudent, but I want to add to this discussion that it's much much safer than you or the social media will try to paint, despite the fear you feel.

And that you're not more likely to be a victim of a violent crime than a man (https://counciloncj.org/womens-justice-by-the-numbers/).

[-] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 5 points 8 months ago

https://www.catsonbroadwayhospital.com/life-feral-cat-colony/#%3A%7E%3Atext=Now%2C+how+do+cats+behave%2Cas+teach+them+appropriate+behaviors.

Wild cats sometimes form colonies. Those structures do have matriarchs. There is dominance in the groups.

[-] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 5 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

During investigations the wizard rolls an investigation check, the cleric rolls an investigation check and the barbarian does nothing because they dumped wisdom

You might be playing it wrong.

During investigations Wizard checks the books in the library, references his own notes, chats up local researcher community. Creates and sends Arcane Eye, spreads his familiars, tries Clairvoyance.

Cleric visits a local church, talks to the priests and churchgoers, prays to the Divine, maybe convinces the town to join her in the crusade against the target and lits the town on fire, while villages attack the nobleman mansion looking for the culprit and plunder.

Barbarian goes to the local tavern to drink with the local guards. Helps local elder find his kitten. Maybe talks to a local hunter and they bond over a bear hunt they just finished, maybe about the beauty of wilderness... One thing leads to another, a secret touch, a hidden look, a moment of courage, a stolen kiss... What I was talking about?

[-] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 5 points 10 months ago

But... That's just an argument that you don't know the situation in NK. Not that the situation is anything, good or bad?

If I lie to you where the fire is, it does not mean the fire is cold.

[-] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 5 points 10 months ago

To be honest I always disliked variable declaration without value assignment, so to me both options suck. :)

[-] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 5 points 11 months ago

Cloudflare provides a pretty good service for a very reasonable price.

You mean selling fingerprinted user data to advertisers?

[-] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 5 points 11 months ago

No country’s that great but Canada’s doing aight.

You can buy a castle in France cheaper than dump apartments in Canada, apparently it's a popular vlog on YouTube.

[-] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

What is wrong with the cheese. Is this AI thing or does anyone has so fluid cheese it looks like orange goo?

[-] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

To be honest Tao Te Ching reads like an edgelord fanfic.

Yet mystery and manifestations arise from the same source.

This source is called darkness.

Darkness within darkness.

The gateway to all understanding

[-] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

komunalka

also, I'm not talking about them. They were a thing in the 50's (after the war) when people were sharing bathrooms or kitchens, they were no longer really a thing in the 80's. In the 80's apartments had their own bathrooms and kitchens.

edit: isn't that basically "Friends" for USA people? :D

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