[-] dmention7@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago

Gotta get every last molecule of sugar out of that stick!

[-] dmention7@lemm.ee 3 points 5 months ago

The green cruise control light ruins the otherwise impeccable German flag color scheme.

[-] dmention7@lemm.ee 2 points 6 months ago

Honestly there is enough rage bait everywhere else, so it's nice to have a place to commiserate over the truly petty annoyances in life.

[-] dmention7@lemm.ee 3 points 7 months ago

Not hatchbox, that's for sure.

[-] dmention7@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago

I agree with you, but it's not even for-profit spaces that are an issue.

The ability to interact with so many people--in near total anonymity, and who you are virtually certain to never meet again--significantly lowers the barrier for acting uncivilly. And likewise the facelessness of other people means that it's so much easier to mistakenly interpret their actions as hostile.

Think of that jerk who totally cut you off yesterday, versus you who just needed to squeeze in between two cars to make your exit. Or how much less likely you'd be to react negatively to your neighbor driving slow in the left lane versus a total stranger.

Our ape brains and thousands of years of human evolution give us the instinct to treat strangers outside our "tribe" with suspicion and interpret their neutral actions as hostile.

Sure those instincts can be exploited for profit and exacerbate them, but I disagree it's the root cause or the reason hostility seems to be on the rise.

[-] dmention7@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

I'm truly sorry to hear that. I know it's a little cliche, but don't forget to take care of yourself so that you can take care of her, and sometimes just being there is enough.

[-] dmention7@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

🥃 to your friend's mom

[-] dmention7@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I first got turned onto Ghost earlier this year, and while I really like the retro tongue-in-cheek cheesiness of a lot of their stuff, The Twenties just leans a little too hard into sounding like it came out of a rock-themed Broadway show.

Btw, I just read a comment on C/trees about taking a listen to your favorite band's worst song while high... 😉

[-] dmention7@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

For me it's the period next to the spacebar. I think my right thumb comes down at just the wrong angle to touch both at the same time. One of these days maybe I'll wise up and change the layout.... but not today.

[-] dmention7@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This is really the only relevant response to that article... Anything else is superfluous.

[-] dmention7@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

This is objectively the only correct answer!

[-] dmention7@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I mean, going off the community description, it's neither "open ended" nor particularly "thought provoking", so I think downvotes are perfectly warranted.

ETA: the "you know, where dissenters get downvoted" also seems pretty bait-y because it presumes that downvotes indicate dissent rather than indicating a lack of value to the community/discussion.

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