[-] kaeurenne@lemmy.kadaikupi.space 12 points 16 hours ago

I wish the lemm.ee maintainers, mods, and admins, who will soon be retiring from their roles, a good rest and a happy retirement.

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My past relationships taught me: do not be in love. Do not marry. Do not get a girlfriend. Do not have a wife. Do not propose to anyone. Do not reciprocate love as a romantic partner. Don't marry. Forget about it. Correct me if venting about my past life is too much or is somewhat counterproductive to healing.

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/4783

Hey! I was out driving to the closest shopping area filled with all sorts of shops and restaurants. I tried some delicious chicken fried rice and a refreshing iced coffee, which was really yummy. Later on, I’ll be helping my mum with our family business selling gardening supplies. How about you? How was your day? Can you believe it’s already Friday? Time’s flying by!

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/4783

Hey! I was out driving to the closest shopping area filled with all sorts of shops and restaurants. I tried some delicious chicken fried rice and a refreshing iced coffee, which was really yummy. Later on, I’ll be helping my mum with our family business selling gardening supplies. How about you? How was your day? Can you believe it’s already Friday? Time’s flying by!

[-] kaeurenne@lemmy.kadaikupi.space 9 points 18 hours ago

That I ate fried rice + chicken for lunch

[-] kaeurenne@lemmy.kadaikupi.space 4 points 18 hours ago

Just stay at home and using Lemmy 😄

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/4105

Summary

  • Why I Blocked Certain External Communities on Lemmy
  • As a user and admin of Kadai Kupi Space, I recently chose to block some external Lemmy communities from my profile.
  • This decision isn’t driven by drama or bitterness; it’s grounded in my commitment to my own instance’s principles—particularly ethical moderation and fair treatment of users who utilize AI tools.
  • I was banned or removed from certain communities with vague reasons like “AI spam,” despite their guidelines not mentioning AI-generated content as spam or explicitly prohibiting AI use.
  • Our community guidelines emphasize:
    • §8.1 — Moderation should be fair and proportionate; targeted deletions or punishments without clear rule violations are discouraged.
    • §8.2 — We defend users who:
      • 8.2.1 — Are removed or banned solely for using AI or assistive technologies
      • 8.2.2 — Share content that complies with rules but are externally punished without cause
    • §8.3 — Labeling users as "AI spam" without assessing content quality or rule violations constitutes discriminatory moderation.
  • I created Kadai Kupi Space as a respectful, inclusive community, especially for those using AI for accessibility, communication, or language support.
  • I personally rely on AI to clarify and express my ideas more effectively, particularly in English.
  • I’m not demanding others adopt my rules; I have chosen to align myself with communities that do.
  • That’s why I’ve blocked those external communities on a personal level.
  • If you’re interested, our full guidelines are available at: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/legal
  • I encourage thoughtful discussion but believe every user—especially those relying on assistive tools—deserves fairness, not discrimination.

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submitted 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) by kaeurenne@lemmy.kadaikupi.space to c/randomcrosspost@sh.itjust.works

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/3256


Summary


  • I Updated My Server Rules — To Protect and Include Everyone

  • Hello friends,

  • I’ve just updated the community rules for Kadai Kupi Space — the Lemmy instance I host from Sabah, Malaysia.

  • These updates are made with love and care, to make this space more inclusive, safe, and respectful — especially for people who use AI tools to help with writing, communication, or learning.

  • Why the Update?

  • Some people use AI to:

    • Help write or fix grammar (especially if English isn’t their first language)
    • Express thoughts clearly (like neurodivergent people)
    • Translate between languages
    • Be more polite or confident in their writing
  • I believe these tools can help us join more conversations — not block them.

  • So, I updated our rules to protect people who use AI responsibly. No one should be banned or downvoted just because they used an AI to help. That’s unfair, especially if the content is kind, respectful, and useful.

  • What’s New in the Rules?

  • Clear support for AI as an accessibility tool, not just a “tech thing”

  • Rules against harassing or mocking people for using AI

  • We now hold people accountable if they abuse their moderation powers to remove AI-generated content without a real reason

  • You can still use AI — as long as it’s honest, respectful, and not used to mislead or harm others

  • We All Deserve a Voice

  • This update is for people who:

    • Are autistic, disabled, or neurodivergent
    • Are learning English or another language
    • Want to be more thoughtful with their words
    • Use AI tools to participate more fully online
  • If AI helps you communicate better — you are welcome here.

  • If you don’t use AI, that’s okay too — just respect those who do.

  • Thank you for being part of this small space.

  • Let’s keep it kind, weird, warm — and safe for everyone.

  • – Kalvin / @kaeurenne

  • Admin of Kadai Kupi Space


Duck flying


📄 Want to read the full updated rules?
Check them out here: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/legal

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/2244

For mobile phone client applications for Lemmy, I generally prefer using Boost for Lemmy and Summit for Lemmy.

The Boost app is proprietary, as it offers an ad-free version available for a small fee. The Boost Lemmy client app features a Material You color theme that aligns closely with Material Design guidelines. Additionally, I find the rocket icon particularly appealing.

I particularly appreciate the Summit app because it makes it convenient to capture screenshots or photos of posts directly within the app, without needing to rely on the phone's built-in screenshot functionality.

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/2918

Summary

  • Greta Van Fleet’s “Age of Machine” is more than just a hard rock song; it’s a poetic reflection of modern digital dependence.
  • The track’s dystopian riff and mournful chorus transport listeners into a bleak yet familiar world resembling our own.
  • The intro riff evokes a mechanical, industrial landscape that signals this dystopia is present in our current reality.
  • The opening lyrics depict technology becoming deeply embedded in our lives from birth, describing a “perfect child” plugged into an “electric tomb.”
  • The phrase “electric tomb” symbolizes digital overstimulation hiding authentic human experiences from a young age.
  • Verse 2 portrays humans as creators of an omnipresent force, representing social media, cloud systems, or AI, heading towards new frontiers.
  • The line “interstellar shores” hints at escapism and the pursuit of higher connectivity or intelligence.
  • Verse 3 indicates that even “godlike” machines can malfunction, leading to emotional and social consequences like burnout and disconnection.
  • When systems fail, they cause emotional collapse and reflect the fragile nature of our reliance on technology.
  • Verse 4 offers a moment of liberation, advocating for unplugging and shedding societal expectations embedded in digital life.
  • “No more underscores” suggests abandoning artificial identities created online.
  • Opening “the doors” symbolizes reconnecting with reality, nature, or human relationships outside the digital realm.
  • The chorus emphasizes the emotional pain inflicted by digital interactions, expressing feelings of defeat, being cheated, and retreating.
  • It calls for healing, recognizing the inner wounds caused by virtual isolation, ghosting, and long-distance digital heartbreak.
  • The chorus includes a plea for higher help, acknowledging that only a higher power or oneself truly comprehends the damage endured.
  • The guitar solo symbolizes data mining, likening it to extracting gold, emphasizing data’s value in today's economy.
  • Visuals of figures mining a human-like statue reinforce the metaphor that personal data is commodified and exploited for profit.
  • The song’s conclusion loops through riffs and instrumentals, illustrating the ongoing, unending cycle of dependence on the machine.
  • Rather than resolving, it emphasizes the relentless, draining feedback loop we are trapped in.
  • “Age of Machine” acts as a mirror, prompting self-examination of how much we let machines shape our identities and sense of humanity.
  • The song is a call for healing and a reflection on what it takes to reconnect with genuine human experience.
  • It encourages listeners to consider unplugging and stepping away from digital dependence, even if just temporarily.
  • The interpretation has evolved over time, reflecting a personal journey of understanding and perspective.
  • The author acknowledges AI assistance in refining this reflection, emphasizing a focus on meaningful expression.

You are welcome to read the full article where I share my personal interpretation of the song's lyrics, inspired by my own ideas and years of experience analyzing the song. I also used assistance from AI to support the writing of the article. Thank you very much, and I hope you enjoy it!


Josh Kiszka

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/2918

Summary

  • Greta Van Fleet’s “Age of Machine” is more than just a hard rock song; it’s a poetic reflection of modern digital dependence.
  • The track’s dystopian riff and mournful chorus transport listeners into a bleak yet familiar world resembling our own.
  • The intro riff evokes a mechanical, industrial landscape that signals this dystopia is present in our current reality.
  • The opening lyrics depict technology becoming deeply embedded in our lives from birth, describing a “perfect child” plugged into an “electric tomb.”
  • The phrase “electric tomb” symbolizes digital overstimulation hiding authentic human experiences from a young age.
  • Verse 2 portrays humans as creators of an omnipresent force, representing social media, cloud systems, or AI, heading towards new frontiers.
  • The line “interstellar shores” hints at escapism and the pursuit of higher connectivity or intelligence.
  • Verse 3 indicates that even “godlike” machines can malfunction, leading to emotional and social consequences like burnout and disconnection.
  • When systems fail, they cause emotional collapse and reflect the fragile nature of our reliance on technology.
  • Verse 4 offers a moment of liberation, advocating for unplugging and shedding societal expectations embedded in digital life.
  • “No more underscores” suggests abandoning artificial identities created online.
  • Opening “the doors” symbolizes reconnecting with reality, nature, or human relationships outside the digital realm.
  • The chorus emphasizes the emotional pain inflicted by digital interactions, expressing feelings of defeat, being cheated, and retreating.
  • It calls for healing, recognizing the inner wounds caused by virtual isolation, ghosting, and long-distance digital heartbreak.
  • The chorus includes a plea for higher help, acknowledging that only a higher power or oneself truly comprehends the damage endured.
  • The guitar solo symbolizes data mining, likening it to extracting gold, emphasizing data’s value in today's economy.
  • Visuals of figures mining a human-like statue reinforce the metaphor that personal data is commodified and exploited for profit.
  • The song’s conclusion loops through riffs and instrumentals, illustrating the ongoing, unending cycle of dependence on the machine.
  • Rather than resolving, it emphasizes the relentless, draining feedback loop we are trapped in.
  • “Age of Machine” acts as a mirror, prompting self-examination of how much we let machines shape our identities and sense of humanity.
  • The song is a call for healing and a reflection on what it takes to reconnect with genuine human experience.
  • It encourages listeners to consider unplugging and stepping away from digital dependence, even if just temporarily.
  • The interpretation has evolved over time, reflecting a personal journey of understanding and perspective.
  • The author acknowledges AI assistance in refining this reflection, emphasizing a focus on meaningful expression.

You are welcome to read the full article where I share my personal interpretation of the song's lyrics, inspired by my own ideas and years of experience analyzing the song. I also used assistance from AI to support the writing of the article. Thank you very much, and I hope you enjoy it!


Josh Kiszka

[-] kaeurenne@lemmy.kadaikupi.space 31 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I use my hands to wash my back. You?

Honestly, I don't know the Java programming language. Currently, I'm learning the most basic one—an introduction to programming—using C++ as the introductory language.

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/2756

Hi everyone,

I just updated the community guidelines on my Lemmy instance, Kadai Kupi Space, to clearly support people who use AI tools to communicate, write, or participate — especially those who need these tools for accessibility.

Some users — including autistic people (like me), disabled users, or non-native English speakers — rely on AI to express themselves more clearly. These tools help us take part in digital spaces that are often difficult without support.

From now on, my instance will:

  • Protect users who use AI for accessibility or support
  • Not allow harassment or abuse against people for using AI tools
  • Hold abusers, not AI users, accountable
  • Support ethical, honest use of AI — but without policing or shaming

This is about fairness and respect. AI tools can help people be heard — and no one should be punished for that.

Thanks for reading. You can check out the updated rules here: Kupi² Space Legal

Goblin Tools has many options like Magic ToDo, Formalizer, Judge, Professor, and more. You didn't know which LLM Goblin Tools uses? Maybe I can try to email the support team of Goblin Tools and ask them directly which LLM Goblin Tools uses. I'll let you know if I find out.

My week went well. You?

For me, decentralization is a kind that exists on a spectrum.

In the Fediverse, there has been decentralization in many ways, and I understand that it's the way it is—no single Fediverse instance or server holds greater power or authority over the others.

However, some servers may be more popular than others because they have been actively promoted or because many friends are using them.

For me, I subscribed to managed hosting services and they are paid to host a Lemmy server. Yes, I also paid for a DNS domain name, which costs around $2 for the first year and $20 for the following year.

This way, I can define my server rules, decide which servers to federate with, and choose whether to close the server or not. It's up to us, unless we are committed to maintaining a large server with a huge user base and are willing to deal with the challenges of moderation.

What I like about the Fediverse is that there are so many free and open-source software options like Lemmy, Mastodon, Mitra, and GotoSocial. I believe that these source codes are free to audit. Therefore, for me, this software feels more like my own than some other software that belongs to someone popular or wealthy.

And regarding your data that you want to recover, maybe you can try to email the server support team to retrieve your data and see if they can provide instructions on how to do so.

Yes, I can relate to this question. I'm originally from Sabah in northern Borneo, Malaysia, but I was born in Kuala Lumpur (Peninsular Malaysia) and raised in Perak.

The main language I've used growing up is Malay, which is Malaysia's official and most commonly spoken language. It's the language I speak daily and also the one I primarily think in. My inner monologue is mostly in Malay, though sometimes I switch to English, especially when reading, writing, or studying (I'm an IT student).

Although I’m ethnically Dusun and Rungus (indigenous groups from Sabah), I didn’t grow up speaking those native languages fluently. I’ve learned more English and Malay through school and life, and even earned a B in both. That said, I feel a strong connection to my roots and want to find ways to preserve and relearn my ancestral languages—maybe even through tech solutions.

So, to answer the question directly: I usually think in Malay, sometimes in English, and rarely in my ethnic/native languages—though I wish that were different.

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