I can easily related to that. Sex is multi dimensional for me, so sounds, smells, sensations, all come into play to make a really enjoyable session.

But those times when it seems like it's the body and instinct taking over... it's a completely different thing.

I could write in very fine detail how the first blow job I ever received was.

Then, if that is so, great and good for you.

Sincerely speaking, I wouldn't know how to or even dare to approach you.

Would I spare a moment to take in your figure? Yes. You seem to be a very beautiful woman and, personally speaking, beauty is supposed to be appreciated.

But the first thing crossing my mind when I think on the scenario of approaching you and offer you a drink is that you would automatically think I was a perv, just looking for an excuse to approach you and oggle you.

If you were to approach me, I'd feel either I'm being pranked or you're calling a bet on some friend.

So, would I buy you a drink? Yes. Under what conditions? I really don't know.

I understand that the thread has mostly lost its heat but nonetheless I'm going to leave this here. This my understanding of dirty talking, as it should be: respectful, teasing, uplifting and full of promise.

I write as a hobby and dialogue is something I enjoy writing, as I'm often able to have things said through the characters in my stories that otherwise I would never be able to muster the slightest ounce of courage to utter.

Picture the following dialogue between a couple that has already hooked up but is now actively socializing, taking part of a salon game along the lines of "truth or dare" or "never would I ever". At this point, things have become somewhat raunchy, so the mood is up.

"You consider yourself good in bed?"

"I don't keep score cards."

"You should. I'd give you a solid 8 after last night."

"You were just as involved as I was."

"Really?"

"From where I was standing, yes."

"Standing, sitting, knealing... you did propped up yourself for the task."

"I try. Thank you."

"Wanna try for the 10 a little later?"

"How about an 11?"

There is a lot of background missing but this is the couple teasing each other, whispering at each other, after someone asked if a person, who boasts constantly for having a lot of hookups, if they consider themselves good in bed.

Then, I would.

If someone waved at you, they probably did.

Not a one sided pick, in my view. First, what are you on the mood for? Then, am I in the same mood? If we're on the same mood, then it can happen. If not, start again.

Sweet, sweet death.

Nice one, man! Be proud of yourself.

That would be worthy of a pic.

The women on the platform are free to do as they choose with their lives. That is not the point in question here.