[-] trueheresy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 months ago

Haha for real, I have seen that a lot and fought not to be that person the second I noticed I wasn't good at this and it wouldn't be different.

I went out of my way to have a pretty rough time where I was basically burned out for a couple of years so my kid would always be met with safety and love. But it nearly killed me and is exactly why I only have one.

Those years are too formative to be fucking around with "I'll just damage you for my own selfish desires."

Even still I live with guilt most days worrying about the damage I do not really being wired for this. I wish I'd had better self awareness before I got into it all.

[-] trueheresy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 months ago

I 100% agree, and hope that remains to be an option. But also... things can change, and they can change fast. We are all only a few days of missed meals or missed mortgage payments from having very different standards.

[-] trueheresy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 months ago

This looks great. Thanks so much for your work on this and sharing with us.

What in your opinion sets your software apart from the other options you mention?

I have recently setup dockers for plex, immich, nextcloud and paperlessngx but have yet to look at longterm maintenence inc. things like auto updates (I know to avoid on immich).

As someone who prob knows the options inside and out - would you recommend your option to this relative newbie or do you think one of the other options might be a better place to start?

[-] trueheresy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 months ago

Yeah I can see that, very interesting example. I have to think about that more as I'm already thinking of loads of similar examples. I guess at the end of the day a 90-99% tax above $x would still be "fair" but it def is a different perspective on ultra wealth that might not necessarily be "stolen."

[-] trueheresy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 3 months ago

Holy shit, after years of trying to convince my wife to join Reddit it turns out you were here on Lemmy all along.

[-] trueheresy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 months ago

This but also for a lot of people the impact the car has on communities, suburbanisation, defunding public transportation etc. is a big factor in wanting to see change.

[-] trueheresy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 months ago

I had a quick search but couldn't identify anything obvious... Could you clarify what cloudflare did recently/why one might want to avoid them?

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