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this post was submitted on 16 Aug 2023
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And while you're here, think about going into settings and customising your displayname with pronouns. Makes the English lemmyverse a more welcoming and diverse place while also benefiting yourself in the form of extra upbears when people see you out and about!
I wonder what your thought is about not having the pronouns, not because I don't want to be welcoming and supportive, but because I don't want people to know. I use them irl (email, zoom, conferences, etc), but on the internet, no one knows you're a dog. Would this be a case for they/them even if I don't use these irl or is this disrespectful?
You can set whatever pronouns you want people to use for you, even if you don't use them irl, and if you don't care at all you can set [any] or [none/use name]. Totally not disrespectful to use different pronouns in different places, lots of people playing around with their gender do this.