Yeah, if you don't have a greater community surrounding the support one, there's just no reason for people to stick around once their problem is solved.

Yeah for an opposite example, I take part in a support group for a certain form of alternative relationships and you have the opposite pressures. People who are well respected in long lasting relationships stay, and people who can't make it work flit out fairly quickly. What this means is the advice is pretty good for those who listen to it.