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Parents you can tell anything to and be heard without judgement, or a list of all your failings in life.
Parents you're not afraid to tell that you tried for something, just in case you fail and it will be used against you for the rest of your life?
Just to clarify, I love my parents and know they love me back, but 10 minutes is literally the limit of co-existence
I'm good with my parents. They have their normal human flaws, which I accept happily.
Are you a parent yourself? It's really difficult. You can't help but bring a lot of baggage. There's a podcast I lesten to, to improve parenting that runs a workshop called "taming your triggers". Having children exposes a lot of wounds and personal baggage. It's really difficult to recognise and address those on yourself as a parent. Your description of expectations from a parent are so idealised, I would argue that there are very few individuals in the world who are actually successful in being that good and selfless.
This is interesting if you've got an hour to watch a philosophy video(link goes directly to 53min if you just want to watch a few minutes).
Podcast name? Thanks for the tips here
Your parenting mojo
But anything that helps you understand your brain and personal issues better will also help with parenting. So also try:
The Happiness Lab
Hidden Brain
School of Life (YouTube channel)
People online tend to recommend therapy to everyone,and I'm sure therapy is great if you can access it. But you can read, listen, watch, learn and improve through self reflection....and heal wounds you never knew about.
The thing I'm really missing is finding a good dad group or parent group to join. I would love some peer support.