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[-] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 15 points 15 hours ago

Back in the 60s, i was a Free-Range kid. On on a nice non-school day, I would go out after breakfast on my bike, and be gone all day, without any money, a watch, ID, cell phone (didn't exist back then), anything, and I'd be gone all day. The only rule was to be home by 5 pm.

Nobody knew where I was, who I was speaking to, or anything. If i bumped into friends, I'd hang out for a while, but if I needed to know the time, I'd ask some stranger. If I was thirsty, I'd knock on a random door and ask for a glass of water. Once, I stopped at the end of a driveway to watch some guy doing woodworking in his open garage. He saw me watching and this stranger invited me into garage, and showed me his tools, and what he was building. Turned out he was a decent guy, and I probably reminded him of his grandson, but what if he wasn't? My primary fear was running into the Robolotto boys, but as long as I didn't see one of them, I was happy.

This was routine for years, and it was the same for my friends. I started doing this when I was about 7 years old.

[-] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago

Did this upbringing influence your later life?

[-] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 3 points 14 hours ago

I think it helped shape me into a an adventurous, curious person, because that was what motivated me as a kid. Other Free Range kids might have gone out to play sports, or to look for trouble, etc., but i was just exploring.

There was another direct influence on my life: Once, i headed to a nearby "woods," to watch animals, and bumped into some friends. One jumped over a small creek to greet me, and stepped right onto an underground bee hive. They all poured out of that hive like water, and came directly for me. The first stung my lip, then neary eye. They got in my hair, up my t-shirt, stuck in my socks etc.

I jumped on my bike and started racing toward home, hoping to outrun them, but they were the kind of bees that don't lose their stingers, so the ones stuck in my clothes kept stinging me. By the time i got home i had at least 30 stings.

I'm okay now, but i was really afraid of bees for many years. Gardening helped me learn to lose my fear.

Overall, i think it made me a person who isn't afraid of the world, and i know i can navigate any situation that comes up.

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