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[-] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 14 points 6 hours ago

Back in the 60s, i was a Free-Range kid. On on a nice non-school day, I would go out after breakfast on my bike, and be gone all day, without any money, a watch, ID, cell phone (didn't exist back then), anything, and I'd be gone all day. The only rule was to be home by 5 pm.

Nobody knew where I was, who I was speaking to, or anything. If i bumped into friends, I'd hang out for a while, but if I needed to know the time, I'd ask some stranger. If I was thirsty, I'd knock on a random door and ask for a glass of water. Once, I stopped at the end of a driveway to watch some guy doing woodworking in his open garage. He saw me watching and this stranger invited me into garage, and showed me his tools, and what he was building. Turned out he was a decent guy, and I probably reminded him of his grandson, but what if he wasn't? My primary fear was running into the Robolotto boys, but as long as I didn't see one of them, I was happy.

This was routine for years, and it was the same for my friends. I started doing this when I was about 7 years old.

[-] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

Did this upbringing influence your later life?

[-] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 3 points 5 hours ago

I think it helped shape me into a an adventurous, curious person, because that was what motivated me as a kid. Other Free Range kids might have gone out to play sports, or to look for trouble, etc., but i was just exploring.

There was another direct influence on my life: Once, i headed to a nearby "woods," to watch animals, and bumped into some friends. One jumped over a small creek to greet me, and stepped right onto an underground bee hive. They all poured out of that hive like water, and came directly for me. The first stung my lip, then neary eye. They got in my hair, up my t-shirt, stuck in my socks etc.

I jumped on my bike and started racing toward home, hoping to outrun them, but they were the kind of bees that don't lose their stingers, so the ones stuck in my clothes kept stinging me. By the time i got home i had at least 30 stings.

I'm okay now, but i was really afraid of bees for many years. Gardening helped me learn to lose my fear.

Overall, i think it made me a person who isn't afraid of the world, and i know i can navigate any situation that comes up.

[-] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 7 points 5 hours ago

I'm an Australian, as a 16 ur old I'd slong my gun over mu shoulder and rodee my trail bike up the range to hunt for pet food. Drape a gutted dead roo over the back of my motobike and bring it jwome, meat for the dogs and skin it. No one batted an eyelid or said anything.

Now I'd be labeled a terrorist, have police helicopters chase me down and be in jail for decades.

[-] peteyestee@feddit.org 3 points 5 hours ago
[-] yngmnwntr@lemmy.ml 12 points 12 hours ago

I see a lot of similar stories here about wandering free and living like feral kids but I want to second making homemade Explosives from hobby shop Rocket engines.

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 7 points 13 hours ago

My grandfather was building a deck on his house and had a bunch of lumber piled up for it. I had the genius idea that I could use it to make "roller coaster" tracks down the steep hill behind their house. Then I had my brother climb into our wagon to test it out. He was about 1/3 of the way down the hill when I realized that he was heading for the tree line with no way to stop... so I ended up sprinting after him and flipping the whole thing over.

[-] crawlspace@lemm.ee 9 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Some friends and I used to soak a tennis ball in lighter fluid, light it on fire, and play "hacky sack" with it. I'm completely shocked none of us ended up with any bad burns.

Edit: to be fair I do have plenty of burns but they are all from baking or getting baked, not from playing with fire.

[-] yngmnwntr@lemmy.ml 6 points 12 hours ago

We sprayed hair spray on our hands, lit them, and did flaming high fives.

[-] joshthewaster@lemmy.world 6 points 13 hours ago

We did this too. We used hacky sacks, socks and idk what else that would absorb lighter fluid and then play in the dark. Learned what burning hair smells like and melted some shoes but we kept doing it.

[-] BCsven@lemmy.ca 13 points 16 hours ago
  • Walk around town with a pellet gun
  • walk home from school alone
  • catch fish from the creek and eat them, after cooking on a fire in the field-- started with a magnifying glass.
  • build a tree fort in the forest 20-30 feet up
  • walk on the barely frozen creek
  • read books
[-] geneva_convenience@lemmy.ml 6 points 5 hours ago

Reading books would get you jailed first these days

[-] Doctor_Satan@lemm.ee 9 points 16 hours ago

Holy shit man, so much. So so so much. Honestly I'm surprised I survived childhood.

We used to free climb cliffs. One of my step brothers took a pretty bad fall, about 60 feet down. He cartwheeled and banged against the cliff face, then landed in a sitting position. His right arm was torn open from armpit to elbow, and the bones were sticking out. Compound break. We had to walk him though about 2 miles of desert to get back to civilization and get help. He survived with no other major injuries, but that was a close one.

I used to go camping out in the desert by myself as a kid. From like 10 to 14 years old. I'd take a bow and arrows with me and just stay out there for a few days with my parents thinking I was spending a few days at a friends house. So much shit could've gone wrong, and sometimes it almost did.

Then there's the normal kid shit like playing with fire and chemicals, almost blowing ourselves up or burning everything else down.

People wonder why I never had kids and all I can do is think about all the shit I got up to as a kid. I don't need that kind of stress.

[-] BmeBenji@lemm.ee 2 points 13 hours ago

When I was a kid I was told that if I professed my love for Jesus publicly that I would be ridiculed and possibly physically harmed. I grew up in suburban America

Pretty sure people still believe that and are teaching that to their kids today.

lol

[-] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 20 hours ago

Does 15 still count as a child? I think it does, and driving 300+ miles to have sex with someone I met on the internet is still probably the most dangerous thing I've ever done.

[-] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 3 points 18 hours ago

I'm 20 and I still don't know how to drive, America is wild

[-] AceFuzzLord@lemm.ee 2 points 14 hours ago

Dangerous then and especially now, but my oldest brother lit off a firework in our backyard, right near or around when school was getting out. We lived a couple blocks away from an elementary school. It was loud enough that the school thought someone was shooting.

This was mid-late 2000s. I imagine if he did it today, the police would have absolutely arrested him without a second thought.

[-] jerkface@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

lol zoomer, oh no, not a firecracker. we had the anarchist's cookbook.

[-] NauticalNoodle@lemmy.ml 6 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

Created flashpowder from 70% Potassium Perchlorate, and 30% 400-Mesh German Dark Alumium powder then subsequently blew shit (mostly earth) up. I also set a lot of stuff on fire. I created Molotov Cocktails out of gasoline and styrofoam and threw them at a block wall of a barn-ruin in the back yard. I also remember creating a Napthalene charge(think cardboard paper-towel roll stuffed with ground up mothballs sitting atop of some Black powder) that was suppose to create a big fireball and though I had no black powder prepared, I did have some excess flash powder I needed to get rid of so I used that. -For the briefest, loudest moment my buddies and I lit up the night sky.

--It was dangerous back then but it was before 9/11 and a visit from the feds was highly unlikely. Afterwards it became much harder to acquire German Dark 400 Mesh Aluminium Powder and today I would wholeheartedly expect a visit from an Alphabet agency. I did scald my face when nickel(bottle)-rocket fuel (made of carmelized sugar and potassium nitrate) ignited in my face as I was melting it together.

[-] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 6 points 19 hours ago

Nile green is that you

[-] Aglow@lemmy.ml 0 points 9 hours ago

Drank tap water.

[-] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 6 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

Before the age of 20: Made gunpowder and made our own enormous firecrackers/hand grenades, played with matches, climbed to the very top of very tall trees, whittled with knives all day long, cutting into high pressure car tyres with knives, made “bazookas” with firework rockets and shot them after other kids on the street, made petrol powered go-carts and raced them on public streets, disappeared out to play all day and came home for dinner, swam in lakes, climbed rocks with sheer drops into the bay, disturbed enormous ant-nests and got bitten all over (I’m sorry ants, that was a shit thing to do), dipped our fingers in melted wax, placed small stones on train tracks and waited for them to get pulverised, played a crazy game that involved throwing knives into the ground right next to bare feet, chopped firewood with sharp axes, burnt large holes in the carpet in my room (turned out a piece of tin foil was not sufficient insulation for burning sparker powder), did a lot of sleeping outside, threw each other into forests of nettles for fun, crawled through drain pipes running under the road, skateboarded down hills on country side roads, built our own skateboard ramp out of doors and nails that were sticking out ready to impale us, walked on thin ice because we liked the cracking it caused, did night time hikes through swamps, wild water rafting, sprayed burning gasoline out of bicycle pumps, played with aerosol cans and lighters, flew gliders age 15, got drunk a lot from 15 onwards (not at the same time as flying), took down the school computers with a homegrown “virus” (that’s being generous, a few scripts that modified autoexec.bat to make all the school’s computers print “teachers are dumb” instead of booting; it still caused them to call in “the experts”, got into fights and ended up going to A&E after being hit in the head with an iron rod, raided countless pear and apple plantations, played with magnifying glasses in the sharp sun and lit up a great deal of forest floors, rode cars down old train tracks, shot guns, shot air rifles, shot bows, shot cross bows, shot sling shots, maced each other, built large swings that threw us over a cliff side and four-five meter drops into water, played around inside a nuclear-protected naval bunker and accidentally activated the emergency lock down alarm, tipped over an army truck after being let out to to “do a bit of terrain driving” by our staff sergeant, set up and blew up 600 kg of TNT to demonstrate the effect of a MRLS cluster bomb in front of the Danish Queen (fun story, it blew her hat off from the pressure wave), fells asleep behind the wheel after a full day of firefighting training and ended up putting my army jeep into a field, made friends with a Soviet diplomat who tried to pump my brother and I for information about our dad’s job as a military attaché (unfortunately the colonel got sent home to Russia after being made persona non grata) - though he did teach us how to ski in the process, set up our own 380V electrics for a enormous LAN party we organised and electrocuted myself, dialled into a lot of weird BBSes to exchange all sorts of pirated software with anonymous network users, war-dialled various remote systems and tried to hack our way into them, drove all over Europe in various wrecks (accidentally smuggled weed over several international borders, which was especially frustrating as I didn’t touch the stuff and didn’t even know it had been brought), did magic mushrooms and had amazing times and dreadful bad trips (fuck MAO inhibitors), went exploring in a fenced off zone that carried nuclear warning signs (Paldiski, not long after the wall came down), detonated gas canisters of all shapes and sizes, etc etc

It was a fun childhood, to be honest, and I’m grateful for it.

[-] Canopyflyer@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago

I'm a Gen X'er... Not sure if the Lemmy's word limit on posts would allow me to list it all.

So here are a few:

Drank from the garden hose? Check

Rode in a car without seat belts? As a toddler? As a baby? Check

Rode my bike all over town with no helmet? Had an accident that put me in a coma for 48hrs because of not wearing a helmet? Check

Harvested tobacco on my grandparents farm? Check (Anyone who has done this by hand, working with those stakes knows the risks.)

I started skydiving in the early 90's. My mother was absolutely appalled and constantly berated me about how "dangerous" it is to jump out of an airplane.

The truth of the matter was I was far safer in free fall than I was during most of my adolescence.

[-] Glytch@lemmy.world 4 points 21 hours ago

Is drinking from the garden hose actually considered dangerous nowadays? I thought that was just a Boomer meme.

[-] Canopyflyer@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago

I'm still here.

I keep reading it, so added for comedic effect..

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[-] Corno@lemm.ee 19 points 1 day ago

Climbing trees! I'd end up climbing mostly up to the top...

One time as a kid, a friend lent me her glasses (I never needed glasses, but I always liked them) and I went to climb a tree. In the tree, looking down, the glasses made it seem like I was much closer to the ground than I was.

So I jumped.

It was extremely stupid. There was a point during the fall when I felt like I should've reached the ground already, but I hadn't. In the end I was fine, the glasses were fine, and my friend thought it was funny. But wow, that could've gone disasterously wrong.

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[-] GooberEar@lemmy.wtf 10 points 1 day ago

Are you asking about things that weren't considered dangerous when I was a kid, but are now? I always thought that was largely a cliche? Pretty much everything that I did as a child that is, or could be, considered dangerous today was considered dangerous then, too.

One thing that does come to mind: I don't think the general public back then was as aware of the danger of second hand smoke. So, exposing kids to cigarette smoke (by smoking indoors, in cars, or even going to public places with smoking sections) didn't seem to be considered risky or dangerous.

Otherwise, pretty much everything I did as a kid that would be considered dangerous today would also have been considered dangerous back then in the days when dinosaurs ruled the Earth and the wheel had only recently been invented. That includes activities sanctioned by adults, like riding in the bed of a pickup truck, and those which weren't, like mixing random chemicals together to see what happens.

[-] uuldika@lemmy.ml 42 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

ran a Tor exit node. chatted on Bluelight. took over a (small) botnet. tripped on research chemicals.

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[-] Jhex@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago
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[-] RandomVideos@programming.dev 13 points 1 day ago

Jumping on the street while a car is quickly moving towards me in an attempt to jump on top of it and look really cool

[-] Raiderkev@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

LMAO this just reminded me of the time my buddy's car was overloaded and I still didn't want to walk home so I asked him if I could ride on the roof of his sedan with my arms holding on through the window holes. It worked, and I didn't die, so I got that going for me. Glad people didn't have smartphones then like they do today. A vid would have 100% made it's way to my parents somehow.

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[-] Kongar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 38 points 1 day ago

Gen x with boomer parents who barely parented, so…. Everything?

How’s this for a list? I swear every one of these is honest to god true and I did them all.

  • jarts
  • Being kicked out of the house for the entire day with zero supervision
  • ice fishing / pond hockey. We decided if the ice was safe or not. Like 10 year old kids…
  • being allowed to ride our bikes on literally any road except for highways
  • riding bikes on the roads with no helmets
  • being allowed to go literally anywhere we could get to on our bikes
  • being given firecrackers
  • carrying and using real guns on the farm at about 10+ years old unsupervised (22s and 410s - the 12 gauge unsupervised wasn't until I was older - like 16ish)
  • riding with no seat belts
  • riding in the back of a pickup truck
  • riding in the way back of a station wagon
  • riding on the edge of a tailgate with our legs dangling over (we used to drag our sneakers on the road and make white lines by burning off the rubber soles)
  • riding on the side edges of the bed of a pickup
  • holding ladders and whatnot onto the roof & tailgate of a pickup (like not tied down - the kids held it down)
  • working / playing all day in the summer sun with no suntan lotion
  • making jumps and going off them with bicycles
  • jumping over our friends with said bicycles and jumps
  • riding three wheelers (they stopped making them because they were so dangerous)
  • mean green machines
  • candy cigarettes
  • buying real cigarettes for our fathers from a vending machine
  • drinking from the hose
  • we we had “real” ninja stars and we hucked those things at everything
  • we had real knives at very young ages - like maybe 5?
  • I had a real slingshot early. Like 5ish. That thing could kill. Dangerous af.
  • I always had a bow and could use it as soon as I could draw it. My friend was lucky enough to have a compound bow. Totally cool to walk around with bows and shoot shit.
  • I learned to use a chainsaw around 10yr old
  • drove tractors unsupervised at about 8 yr old
  • drove tractors on the road
  • learned to drive a real car (Datsun pickup truck - stick shift) at about 10. Unsupervised on the farm. Not allowed on the road. We used to drive it fast and do donuts and shit. Parents and grandparents didn’t care - we were just having some fun. “Be careful and don’t crash into trees” was all I ever got warned about.
  • siphoned gas with a hose
  • sprayed herbicides pesticides and fungicides as a teenager with no mask
  • being allowed to camp outside in the woods for the night with friends
  • being allowed to make campfires at said campouts (we cooked hotdogs and ate them)
  • going to concerts with older brothers (anyone’s older brother) at young ages (basically once you started getting into music - 10ish?)
  • carrying a house key with you since day 1 of kindergarten
  • being a latchkey kid - I came home alone and took care of myself and my younger sister by about 3rd grade. Before that we got dropped off at grandmas house after school. If we had a problem we just called grandma on the phone.
  • allowed to cook anything anytime since about 5
  • it was a responsibility to light the wood stove and keep the fire going in the winter.
  • mowed lawns unsupervised since a young age. 8ish maybe?
  • used weed whackers about the same time
  • had a dirt bike at 13ish. Allowed to go anywhere unsupervised
  • totally cool to swim unsupervised or even alone once I learned how to swim
  • totally cool to eat things that had fallen on the ground - the 5 second rule definitely applied
  • it was ok to drink at home a little bit with friends as a teenager. Like a sleepover or out in the woods. Better than drinking and driving. Getting shitfaced wasn’t cool, but drinking some of dad’s beer / liquor was - as long as we didn’t drive. Party at a friends house? Gonna be booze? Ok if parents are around and nobody drives.
  • when tromping around the neighborhood-I didn’t have to tell my parents where I was. They didn’t care. There were no cell phones either. If our parents wanted us they’d yell. If that didn’t work, they’d call neighbors and once they found out where we were last seen - that neighbor would yell.
  • people had chicken pox parties (I never went to one but they happened - I think I got it from my sister)
  • monkey bars - big ass ones at least 15 feet high. Hard packed dirt underneath. Totally could bust your head open or break your back if you fell off one. Wicked dangerous. Was actually scary to climb to the top but you bet your ass we all did it, otherwise you were a pussy and got picked on forever.
  • huge Fn seesaws - like would go up in the air maybe 6 or seven feet
  • those spin-y things in the playground-dunno what they were called. You know all the kids piled on, others grabbed the bars and spun the shit out of it. We all got dizzy and tried not to whack our heads falling off.

I dunno, that’s all just off the top of my head.

[-] Wahots@pawb.social 5 points 22 hours ago

The last one is merry-go-rounds :)

[-] tamal3@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago

I would never have thought to call it that but Wiki agrees: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roundabout_(play) to me a carousel or merry-go-round is motorized and huge with fake horses to ride on.

[-] Ardyssian@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

As someone that had a sterile childhood of all work and fenced play in Singapore - that sounds like an amazing and well-lived childhood, for the most part.

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[-] vfreire85@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago

i'm brazilian and 40, put a check mark on a lot of things on the list.

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[-] Teknikal@eviltoast.org 2 points 21 hours ago

Play on the streets unsupervised have knives, playing on building sites and similar and that was about at a guess 6 or 7. We also played in the local park and generally got up to mischief.

[-] TheOSINTguy@sh.itjust.works 52 points 1 day ago

Run around in the woods with a good stick.

[-] aedyr@lemmy.ca 2 points 13 hours ago

Man, the older I get, the more I miss being a kid with a good stick.

[-] TheOSINTguy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 hours ago

You can still run around in the woods with good stick regardless of age. I still do it with my nephews.

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