One of these days, I plan to create my own Lemmy instance. What’s the best way to filter out weirdos during registration? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 3 days ago by CraigCabbage@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I plan to have people type an application to register but will deny creeps and obviously bots. What would be the best questions to ask/way to tell that someone is a creep with ill intentions?

I have some ideas, but I’m looking for more, actual ideas from the Lemmy community. Ex: (if I make it a 13+ instance) What age range do you plan on interacting with? What do you plan on talking about with these people? What do you plan to do here?

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[-] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 7 points 3 days ago

Some weirdos are private about it. In that case, approve them if they appear “normal” but if they’re caught being weird (with proof), ban them.

For the weirdos who will be open about it (ex: I’ve seen some people in their bio who say stuff like 35M looking for 15F or younger), they may outright tell you who they plan on interacting with and what they plan on talking about.

this post was submitted on 18 Apr 2025

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