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What was the biggest pill you've had to swallow about your own self or habits? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 2 days ago by NomenCumLitteris@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I'll go first...after 10 years of speculating in the market (read: gambling in high risk assets) I realized I shouldn't ever touch a brokerage account in my lifetime. A monkey would have made better choices than I did. Greed has altered the course of life many times over. I am at an age where I may recover from my actions over the decades, but it has taken its toll. I am frugal and have a good head on me, but having such impulsivity in financial instruments was not how I envisioned my adulthood. Its a bitter pill to swallow, since money is livelihood of my family, but I need to "invest" all I have into relationships, meaningful moments, and fulfilling hobbies.

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[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 3 points 1 day ago

As far as the job goes, I just meant that my interests are more aligned with scientific research/discovery but that I'm in no way shape or form a "scientist." I'm nowhere near smart enough for that. Other than that I do like fixing things, but I hate driving and I need a schedule. I hated being a service technician never knowing when the day would be over and having to get a call once I got home to go back out.

For the house, it's 100% the area... Houses that are basically twice burned down, glorified sheds, once selling for $60k USD back in 2016 are now $250k+ it's absolute insanity.

[-] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago

Are you qualified to be a technical assistant? You could get involved in a science oriented environment without, say, having a degree in a scientific field. It could be pharmacology, etc.

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 1 points 1 day ago

I'm not sure if I am qualified to do that, but I'd have to look into it. I appreciate the suggestions! Certainly would beat the dead end factory job I have now lol

this post was submitted on 15 May 2025

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