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What is Neurodivergence?
It's ADHD, Autism, OCD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, bi-polar, aspd, etc etc etc etc
“neurologically atypical patterns of thought or behavior”
So, it’s very broad, if you feel like it describes you then it does as far as we're concerned
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Just because it's entertaining, I want to add to Keld's comment that Big Joel did a decent video on the book that popularized the phrase: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kD6KJ_ThZio
I don't remember it verbatim, but there's a story in it that almost got me in trouble when someone was talking about love languages and I free-associated to it and burst out laughing. The story is something like:
I looked for which part of the video it's in and honestly the actual passage is a bit less funny than I remembered, but also a bit more stupid. Mostly I just wanted to share it as I remembered it because it feels like a concentrated version of the broken reasoning you see all the time when people discuss these issues.
I found YouTube links in your comment. Here are links to the same videos on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:
Link 1:
Link 2: