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How do you justify buying something you want but don’t need?
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I don't justify it, i just buy it.
If i want a motorcycle, and i have the money for it....
When i was younger i used to think about things a lot. I'm 44 now. I lost my dad 5 years ago, and my mom last year. It really changed my views on life. Yeah i save some on a savings account, but at the end of today, tomorrow is always a promise, never a guarantee. And so i live a much easier life. I buy what i want, when i want, where i want.
I used to think that would make my cynical, but it actually made me a more pleasant person, less worrying on my part. If that makes any sense?
I think this is something that many of us only learn with age, and reminders of how short life actually is.
Saving money for a rainy day is sensible, but you can get really locked into that mentality to the point where you don't actually realise the roof's leaking because you didn't keep on top of the repairs.
This! Every time I see an article about retirement and how much you need to survive… it makes me pull out my spreadsheet and see where I am.
I still have a way to go also. Always worried about “will I have enough” and not worried about “am I having fun / am I happy” ☹️
First, want to say, sorry for your loss. It’s always tough losing a loved one.
It’s odd, rationally what you say is spot on! I just never seem to get past it… and live the mantra.
Your comment is very much appreciated! I think we should all think like this. Thank you so much!!