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Does this weird anyone else out? Graduated HS in 1989 and it seemed like we were all fucking, even the nerds. I'm short and scrawny, still tripped and fell into pussy now and again.
There's something really alarming about this, can't put my finger on it. It's certainly weird that today's young people aren't fucking when we were going nuts during the AIDS epidemic, risking our lives for that cookie. Sex is such a basic human need I can't imagine what going without is doing to mental health.
But it was also something people lied a lot about so the numbers could be shaky. Maybe we should redo it and ask old people when they got laid the first time.
Yeah I learned the math from American Pie. But we got laid more, because we met people in the real world more. Also when dating sites first came out, they were actually built to find you a partner. I got laid so much more from those apps. I hear today those apps main goal is to keep you on the app. (So glad met my wife on OkCuipd before the enshitiction)
I mean I once met woman from Craigslist on personal connections or whatnot. Not even sure that a thing now.
Plus younger people aren't sex crazed like we were. I have three boys. Oldest 21 to youngest 16. Two in relationships. At 16 I was chasing girls like crazy. My 16 year old son could care less. He has other priorities. And my middle son isn't trying to get laid with his trans boyfriend. I mean as a father kinda glad they aren't out knocking up girls and shit. At same time do worry about it. But think it's us not them.
Probably don't help that life harder now and their future looks bleak.
*Couldn't care less
Edit: I will add that even if your child isn't in a romantic or sexual relationship, they can still learn from meaningful relationships with their friends and from their relationship with their parents. Provided they have good friends (and parents, no pressure) they'll turn out ok, and they'll learn that there are worse things than being single.