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I recently learned that voting on lemmy is not anonymous. Anyone can get information about who has upvoted and downvoted a post or comment.

In combination with your IP, this is a massive privacy (maybe even physical security) risk. Also, people can target you for your votes.

Sadly, this is something where I would prefer Reddit over Lemmy. Big tech scrapes data from both places anyways, at least Reddit is safe.

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[-] Perspectivist@feddit.uk -3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

You’re not accurately representing what they said.

this could easily be solved.
Russia go home. Leave Ukraine.

…is on par with telling people to “get a higher-paying job” to fix their finances or “just get friends” to solve loneliness. I don’t downvote a comment like this because it wouldn’t solve the issue, but because the proposed “solution” is completely out of touch with reality.

Good rule of thumb for online discussion: if someone offers a simple solution to a complex problem, they probably don’t know what they’re talking about.

[-] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

I mean...I am "they".

honestly I'm at a loss of even how to respond to your critique. you're comparing first world problems and the primary request of the Ukrainian government like it's apples to apples.

I think if either of us is underestimating the complexity of the situation, it's you.

many of the problems that are plaguing Ukraine right now is Russia. many of the problems plaguing Russia right now is their illegal occupation of Ukraine. the simplest solution right now is for Russia to leave Ukraine. after that, discussions of reciprocity can be held. I use that term loosely here though because Russia is clearly the one at fault and Ukraine has been acting in self-defense, as such Ukraine shouldn't be required to repay anything to Russia.

also, if you're coming to Lemmy to have a deep political discussion on the finer points of political discourse (especially on the topic of Russia), you might not be that intelligent. maybe read a book on the subject and find a discussion group at a local library if you want to engage with an intellectual.

remember, these are comments not thesis statements.

[-] Perspectivist@feddit.uk -3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

"You might not be that intelligent" isn't the counter argument you might think it is.

You misrepresented what OP said. Plain and simple. That's what I'm calling you out on.

[-] npdean@lemmy.today 0 points 1 week ago

Thank you for saying it. I thought I was going mad.

[-] npdean@lemmy.today -3 points 1 week ago

Ok at the risk of being downvoted to oblivion, why do you think Russia invaded Ukraine?

Mind you, I still think Russia did the wrong thing but there is nuance.

[-] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

There is no nuance. Russia amassed an invasion force at the Ukrainian border for a week before entering their sovereign territory.

Russia postured at the border and had been threatening to advance for months before that even.

Russia was supporting Russian separatists and funding domestic terrorists within Ukraine before the invasion.

the only reason why this happened is because the Ukrainian public rebelled against the Russian fed corruption and held an actual legitimate election and removed the installed puppets.

if there is any nuance here, it's in the multiple ways that Russia had attempted to circumvent the will of the Ukrainian people.

[-] FelixCress@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

why do you think Russia invaded Ukraine?

To take it over. You know, like they have done with number of countries number of times before?

[-] PhilipTheBucket@quokk.au 3 points 1 week ago

No, it's on par with telling someone "Well, you shouldn't keep driving drunk then" or "You should 100% stop contacting her and move on if she keeps instantly blocking you on every new platform you try on." Certain actions really are under voluntary control. We're not telling Russia they really need to shape up that GDP if they want the world to take them seriously. We're asking them to stop deciding to kill innocent people. Seems legit. The obstacle is that they really want to, and they're reluctant to stop.

(The analogy is flawed because there's no real equivalency between driving drunk and maybe rolling the dice on killing one family, and yourself, versus doing it to members of a million families. But the simplicity of the solution is the same.)

[-] Perspectivist@feddit.uk -2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

There’s no real cost to stopping drunk driving. Putin, on the other hand, has gone all in on the war in Ukraine. “Just pull your troops from Ukraine” is about as realistic as “just shoot yourself,” because from his perspective, the outcome is basically the same in both scenarios.

Sure, it would be nice if Russia simply left Ukraine, but put yourself in Putin’s position - it’s a complete non-solution. You don’t fold after going all in. It’s an incredibly naive thing to say, and it ignores the reality and complexity of the situation entirely. It’s a thought-terminating cliché - a feel-good slogan people toss around to avoid critical thinking, while fishing for upvotes from like-minded people.

[-] FelixCress@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

There’s no real cost to stopping drunk driving.

There isn't one for Russia to go home neither.

put yourself in Putin’s position - it’s a complete non-solution

You are taking a fucking piss.

[-] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 week ago

Wow, I'm dumbfounded by this logic.

Let's say you and I live next door to each other. One day, my family and I break into your house and move in. You tell us to leave, but we punch you in the face. You try fighting back, but we don't leave, and days and weeks go by. I've moved some of my furniture into your house. How would you feel if people started saying that the problem is now too complex. I've obviously invested too much in living in your house for me to just pack up and go home. The solution is going to have to be more nuanced than that.

This seems to be the logic you're defending.

[-] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 0 points 1 week ago

Nothing I've said is in any way defending the invasion.

[-] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 week ago

It's the logic of what I replied to that doesn't make sense to me.

[-] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Your cartoon example isn't even remotely equivalent to the reality Putin is in. He went in expecting to take Kyiv in a week with minimal resistance and no serious Western response. Even in his worst-case planning, he didn’t prepare for what he's in now. The point where he could have cut his losses passed long ago - he’s gone all in, and now the West is calling his bluff.

Put yourself in his position and look at the “solution” being offered: withdraw all troops, surrender the little territory you’ve gained, and face the full weight of everything you’ve gambled and lost. The alternative? Keep throwing whatever you have left at the problem and hope for a miracle.

Given he’s likely only got another decade or so left to live, there’s no personal incentive to fold now. He has nothing more to lose - he’s not just going to walk away.

[-] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 week ago

The salient part of my analogy is that his "investment" is in being completely in the wrong by every measure. No one should support him continuing on the path he's been on.

[-] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 1 points 1 week ago

If you want the killing to stop, then you have to talk about viable ways to make it stop - not what would be nice in some perfect universe we don’t live in. I’ve yet to see a single suggestion from you about what should be done instead.

[-] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 week ago

I would personally like to see more support from other countries, just like I hope I would stand up for my invaded neighbor in my hypothetical scenario. I would not reward Putin in any way or he'll just do it again with another country.

[-] npdean@lemmy.today -1 points 1 week ago

Ok I have ro ask, have you studied philosophy or language? Your comments are so well formed with proper terminology.

[-] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 1 points 1 week ago

Thank you!

No, I haven’t - I’m a plumber by training. I credit my autism for my precision of speech, and as for my philosophy and the vocabulary around it, I’d say that’s simply the result of a few decades of debating these topics online, combined with thousands of hours of podcasts and YouTube videos covering these topics.

It’s rare that I say anything completely original. If something I say comes across as well-crafted, it’s probably because I’ve said the exact same thing a dozen times before.

[-] npdean@lemmy.today 0 points 1 week ago

Autism is a superpower if used correctly.

You are my second favourite plumber, after Mario.

[-] FelixCress@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

You are my second favourite plumber

Do you want a little bit of vaseline with that?

[-] npdean@lemmy.today 2 points 1 week ago

if someone offers a simple solution to a complex problem, they probably don’t know what they’re talking about.

New quote added to my journal

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